I am 26, 5.10" very fair attractive youngman with athletic body, well settled, earn big, had large home.No bad habbits.I was never in love with somebody, never.I always give prefrence to my job and work which never left any time for me to focus on girls.I always believe don"t search for love, it will catch you.But its not happening, i don"t find girl of my kind.I want my girl to be near perfect, she should be beautiful, from good family, reasonably educated and not corrupt.
all my friends say its not everyday you can find such kind of girl, agreed but its around 2 years i am on search for my girl and not find one like that.
"love and death both are unexpected guests in life" i agree but now this wait kills...
should i ask my parents to look girl for me...or... should i wait for her some more time.
2006-12-28 22:31:11 · 16 answers · asked by rockstar_superstar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Fate may bring u to the gal, but if u shut ur heart, she will never be able to come in.
2006-12-28 23:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are 26 ? You really cant wait for love to knock on your door
c' mon man ? U are a GUY - AREN'T U ?????
What do U expect ? A Lady to walk up to U and kneel at your feet cause U think U have it all ????? _ ATHELETIC BODY _ GOOD
EARNING POWER < large home < fair
and whatever else you think abt yourself >>>>
Remember >>> THIS IS YOUR OPINION ABT YOURSELF
Your opinions abt Yourself and LOVE are 2 different things altogether , love is not abt being rich , or poor , Not abt having good looks or not , Not abt being fair skinned or dark skinned .
LOVE IS WHAT THE OTHER SEES OF YOU _ NOT WHAT YOU SEE IN YOURSELF ,
Dont look for perfection in anyone , no-one is perfect NOT EVEN YOURSELF -
Look for LOVE my friend , mix mingle , get to know people ,
let others make judgement abt who U are ,
Dont assume that YOU ARE "the man of this universe "
and that girls shall race against time to your doorstep - this will never happen .
Whats with asking your parents to find a girl for U ?
Are U the one who is looking for love or is it your parents ?
U ARE OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT U WANT <
The parent thing - huh , THIS IS 2006 - almost 2007
NOT 1892 -
wake up man and good luck , hope u find love soon
u can do it , if u only open your mind up a bit
think more of others - not yourself - and dont forget to look for love -
it shall never come to U if U do NOT GIVE LOVE A CHANCE
2006-12-29 06:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love pops up in the stangest places. You can't put guidlines and expectations on who you will fall in love with. It just happens. I dated many, many people. I was engaged twice and almost a third time. I would only date guys who were within my "guidelines" to only have a failed relationship. Guys with money, good jobs, had a house or codo...etc. I wouldn't date anyone who made less money that I did. They had to be much taller then me, good family...etc. The tall dark and handsome with money qualifications that every girl dreams of. Well...I just got married last month to a wonderful short, slighly chubby guy. I make more money then he does and he's a recovering drug addict. I met him in the oddest place - at his job. He works with troubled kids and I took my troubled nephew there. We totally clicked. He liked the fact that I was helping out my sister and her kids and I liked the fact that he cared so much about helping others. We dated for 11 months and then got married 4 months after that. He is totally not within my "guidlines" of a possible man for me. But we just clicked. We are very happy and we can't wait to start a family together.
So, my suggestion is to toss out the "guidlines" of what you think is the perfect girl for you...and just go out there and meet people - you never know who you will meet. You might be passing up some wonderful girls who will make you happy. You can't buy happiness. And if you think you can, then you will never be truely be happy. Good luck with your search and I hope you find the kind of love I have.
2006-12-29 09:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Michele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should make sure your heart is open to prospects..By that I mean dont completely overwhelm yourself in work because the right girl may be right there and you wont even have time to notice....but at the same time dont try to hard to "find" the right girl..I feel we all have a soul mate out there and that if we are openminded and happy in general that our souls will collide..unfortunately it may take some time and maybe other relationships...Instead of looking for that "Perfect" girl for you just let yourself be open to all sorts of "Friendships" because afterall that is the key to a great relationship and I feel your more apt to find your soul mate that way...none of us are perfect BUT there is a perfect match out there for all of us...It took me several relationships Before my soulmate and I find each other I always knew something was missing BUT now I feel so very complete! Good Luck
2006-12-29 06:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by Katbutterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't set your expectations so high...that right there could be part of the problem. By having all these what she should be (not to mention, near perfect) you are already eliminating too many women. Get rid of your expectations, or at the very least, loosen up them and you will increase your chances of finding someone...perhaps someone who's better than your expectations even. I think this is part of what is meant by don't go looking for it, it will find you (obviously you were looking if you've got all these expectations laid out).
2006-12-29 08:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not with "finding the right girl", it's with your personality and how much of your heart you are willing to give. Beautiful women are plenty, however, in order for them to notice you, and you them, you need to change your whole focus and become someone that women find easy to talk with, and to trust enough to tell their deepest secrets and fears. This is coming from a women's perspective . . . if I find a man attractive I must also like his personality, he might have it all, looks, money, nice home . . . but without in inner peace and a bright engaging personality I would not want to talk with him. You will not find a women until you learn to open up to your feelings and become a likable person. Your parents could hook you up with a beautifuly women, but without love you will not be happy. And LOVE, makes a women beautifull and interesting, and sexy. Good luck!
2006-12-29 06:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you kno dear tell ur parents to search for a girl mayb u would actually fall for her and at the same time keep looking. by the way keep urself open minded. nobody i s perfect and its no perfection tat makes a woman beautiful but how she is on the inside ...and ur still jus 26.. hav patience. if its to b then u wil find her...
2007-01-01 04:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by menakshistar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 25, this perfect woman is not going to drop out of the sky and say I'm the one for you!!! Do you belong to any groups that you would meet someone??? And yes, maybe your parents would know of someone or maybe they have a friend that has a daughter that would be good for you, who knows. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-29 06:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I'm wondering.... Are you that perfect yourself? No offense meant, just a stupid question. I ask that because a near-perfect girl has every right to look for a near-perfect man, right?
2006-12-29 06:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must make yourself available in order to attract love. You also need to open yourself to having love come into your life. And you need to experience some disappointments in love, before you can find your girl. You may need another two years, before you find her. Be patient, don't despair. Learn from all your disappointments, and love will come to you when you least expect. Believe me, because it happened to me.
2006-12-29 06:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋