i have been dating a girl for 3 months now and i want to ask her for sex . i don't want to be animal or something like that , i respect her and i am responsably for my self . so what should i do ask her now or at least wait another month ??
please don't be childish and say you are jerk because people like that annonying me .
2006-12-28 22:20:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she has a problem with:
1) Her Vagina
2) Your Penis
3) Sex in general
Seriously after 3 months of not jumping your bones man, I'd probably just either stay because you love her no matter what, or leave because that is a very long time to wait...unless you both are around 15, and then please disregard everything I've said and just let her come to you at her own pace...which might be the right answer at any age.
2006-12-28 22:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by STY 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be old fashioned and wait. 3 Months is a long time to wait but its not that long when your going out. Its nice to see a guy respecting a girl, you dont see alot of that now days. If you have an open relationship where you can talk about anything, talk to her, you might just find out that she's waiting for you to make the first move. If not, the longer you wait the better it will be!
2006-12-28 22:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen---you better get a book on sex and relationships---you just don't have sex--it is supposed to be an emotionally charged bond between consenting mature loving adults ready for that step. There is no time frame and maybe she will say no--if she has any integrity. 3 months---boy theres a real relationship. You don't give your age but I would guess and say you are not old enough for the sex as I see it. Grow up and let nature take its course. You push that issue and she may dump you in a heartbeat.
2006-12-28 22:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,
You already have the answer.You have been dating the lady for 3 month,you are already contemplating extending the sex time.
Sex is meant to be a bond between her and you.You should ask yourself some questions before you actually ask her for sex.The way i see it,you have the answer even before you ask her.My opinion,please don't embarrass yourself.
I wouldn't have sex just for fun (if I have to) like I would feel thirsty then I take a glass of water.You are hesitating because the lady you need to ask for sex has very high integrity.Be patient with issues of the body.This goes even with touching a ladies body(the hand)while walking.They are very fragile creatures and that's how they were created you have to respect that principal.So,please don't disrespect her and don't embarrass yourself.otherwise if you are craving for sex and that's what you want and don't care of the repercussions,go for it!
2006-12-28 22:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by The millionaire next door 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is one thing to wait and another to not be man enough to take action. i dont mean to sound insulting, i dont intend that. but it is the MANS responsibility to take a risk and make some type of move to go further and accept if she puts the brakes on.
no risk no play.
2006-12-28 22:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by larrydoyle52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 3 months.. erm.. it is not too early to ask for sex
but is she a virgin? if she is, then it is hard to get her but if she is not, it is kinda easy.
well, just try
if she pissed off and say no, respect her and tell her that u jsut wanna have her for ur own. it is not about pleasure.
good luck. i hope this help.
2006-12-28 22:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i suppose it depends.. is she a lil shy? if so then wait a lil longer.. also depends how far uv gone but i take it since u want sex uv gone far. u should talk to her about it. ask her how she feels ABOUT sex. ... does she believe in sex after marriage?
2006-12-28 22:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months!that enough for u to have that sex with her.maybe she want to ask u that but she's scared?so ur turn to ask?
2006-12-28 22:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by glossygal123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should check your spelling or grammar first coz we might think you're still in grade school and you're already talking about sex..
anyway, ask her when you two are really "comfortable" with each other. coz if not, she might get offended...
2006-12-28 22:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u shud wait a lil....its a bit 2 soon.
2006-12-28 22:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋