I fell hard 4 this girl at work, so I started talking 2 her & found out the feelings were mutual. She has bf, but he treats her so bad, I mean shes the one that works & he stays at home, he doesnt apreciate her, or deserve her. I told her I wait 4 her,but I just cant understand why any girl would want 2 B with a guy like that over me!
2006-12-28 22:12:29 · 3 answers · asked by Christopher w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question is not why would she want to be with a guy like that, the question is why would you want to be with a girl like that. She has told you about how her boyfriend treats her and has made no attempt, whatsoever to leave him. You want to put your life on hold while you wait for her? Don't you think you deserve better than that? Life is too short, find someone that will appreciate you.
2006-12-29 00:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by ugogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a vicious cycle my dear.
The woman in question has a certain amount of insecurities. Her boyfriend, at some point in time, has either encouraged her in a way that eased these issues or discouraged and made her feel as if he was the only one in the world that would love her with these "faults". You can either hang in there in hopes that one day she will jump ship or you can find another first mate.
Sorry. No real advice on this one, just giving you the overall view of the situation.
Ta Ta
John 3:16
2006-12-28 23:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lemuria Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, umm...I have no idea why she doesn't just leave him and go for u because she obviously likes u. Maybe there is something more complicated that u should ask her about. There is not much u can do from this point cause she has a boyfriend. I would ask her more cause it seems wierd. Good Luck! ;)
2006-12-28 22:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋