OK so not long ago, about 2months or less I thought this guy liked me. He always talked to me at school and we were pretty close. It was obvious he liked me. I mean he even gave me his email. So then I emailed him and I told him I liked him. Then his reply was "WHAT!!!!!????????????? Your so tall though. EEEW." I was so sad and angry at him, but yet I still liked him alot. He acted the same at school after that, always so nice and awesome. I think he still likes me, but then how come when I told him before he said eew? Should I tell him again? Or is he a jerk?
2006-12-28 22:09:03 · 16 answers · asked by Bordering Suicide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have this feeling that he is playing with you. Do the following if you are really interested in him:
Tell him on his face that you like him. But while doing this you take it as an adventure, do not attach yourself emotionally. If his response is not polite enough (like the email), forget him - he is a jerk. I am saying this because there is no point talking nicely to someone in person and talking rubbish on email.
2006-12-28 22:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him what he meant by his comment, was he kidding or was he serious? Ask him if that's what's holding him back from being with you. Just ask questions where he need to answer honestly. Don't just bring it up, tell him "Can I talk to you in private about something serious?" Something like that, and then let it out. If he answers in a way you find unsuitable, then he is definitely a jerk and you're better off without him.
Good luck.
2006-12-29 06:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't know how to approach the fact that you said "i like you", sometimes guys can have a hard time dealing with that. it is possible.
also, he might not be straight, and might not know how to exactly explain something he isn't ready for...most gay men get along great with women.
maybe you should actually sit down and talk to him, instead of through email, at least you'll have some closure on if he likes you or not.
this could be a friendship rather than a relationship.
2006-12-29 06:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by chonnyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he is a total jerk! Honestly, a real guy would not say that. What was he thinking? Move on, forget him! Those are the best things to do because he is such an idiot! Good Luck! ;)
2006-12-29 06:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on him dear. You are not going on the right track. Its not going to be a smooth sailing, even if tomorrow he says YES to you!! And by the way - if someone talks to you nicely deosn't mean he loves you. You are using a wrong word - LIKE - in your question. Actually you wanted to ask, whether he loves me or not?? So, if someone is nice to you, let him be nice to you and do not act stupid, if he doesn't show interest.
2006-12-29 06:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by AB2874 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was joking and trying to be confident, funny, and cool. Don't take it personally. In fact, since you are young, I will give you some of the best advice on this planet...Don't take anything personally. If you can do that, you will be yourself, and that is the most attractive thing about a person that I know of.
2006-12-29 06:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by STY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should never have told the guy through e-mail[if a guy gives u his id...it isn't a big thing].Secondly,I don't think YOU should go up to the guy AGAIN.Wait for him to come to you[or go find someone else].
Most guys act really sweet just to draw attention.......so just make sure he hasn't been acting like with other girls.
2006-12-29 06:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by I aM CrAzY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're brave enough, try asking him in person. Maybe he was being sarcastic when he answered your email. Guys do the dumbest things. I'm sure he still likes you, he just doesn't have the balls to admit it.
2006-12-29 06:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't tell him again he knows you like him it is up to him now don't make a fool out of yourself, He just might be a jerk?
2006-12-29 06:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believed that first time impression is crutial for relationship for everyone.Its hard to warming up someone after the first impression wasnt positive on sexual relationship.
We meet a lot of people in our dayly life.Some them attract us about sexual relationship.
His first impression about you hardly changes.
Therefore find yourself another boy and forget him.
2006-12-29 06:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by Katya M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋