I asked this woman i have been dating for about a month where we was in our relationship i said. Are we just dating or is there more to it and she said she didnt know so i then asked if she would like it to be more and she said it will happen naturally. General opinion from everyone please. The response she gave is fine for me but should i have asked or kept my mouth shut?
2006-12-28 22:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fair enough question at least you know where you stand and now she also knows that you are treating it as a relationship and not just a fling. good for you hope it all works out.
all the best
nat
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2006-12-28 22:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is fine to ask but seeing as you have only been together a month you may have come across as pushy. As she said - give it time and see what develops then after about 6 months see where you are and ask her again if you feel that things are still the same
2006-12-28 22:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's good to have an idea of where the relationship is going. Otherwise, it would be like driving blind-folded. And that's just plain bad. Now that you know she has a specific destination to your relationship, you know that you didn't waste your time on this girl. If she said she had no idea where this was headed, that's a good indication to drop her if you are looking for a meaningful long-term relationship. Good luck with her.
2006-12-28 22:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u maybe shouldnt have asked cause those things are coming naturally ... asking at what stage a relationship is after a month is not apropriate
so let it come naturally dear
have a happy new year
2006-12-28 22:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh u probably put her on the spot a bit too much at an early stage, she is just getting to know you. dont put her under any pressure and go along with how things are for now..she'll soon let you know where things are going. good luck kid xxX
2006-12-28 22:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong to ask. ( i hope she's not pissed off by your ans) but she's right, if the feeling is there, naturally she will want to get seriously involved with you soon. Maybe she needs time cand can't give you a definite ans yet
2006-12-28 22:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Yoo Hoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess she didnt sure herself so she just say it will happen naturally. i thk here u must make more moves just to keep her even more interested. surprise her with sumthg beautiful or sweet but dun keep on asking qs. it makes her feel pressured n u too pushy n desperate.
2006-12-28 22:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by little lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Providing you weren't wearing a gimp suit at the time, you were completely fair in asking - it's your perogative
2006-12-28 22:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Hugeteetees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think after a month it may have been a little too soon to ask.but no harm done,just see what happens.
2006-12-28 22:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right ask and mybe it's best to wait and see what happens.
2006-12-28 23:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋