..a boyfriend, or my first kiss.
im thinking about giving up.
how long does it take to have a boyfriend?
when did you have your first realationship, and first kiss?
when is the normal age somebody has a boyfriend or girlfriend?
2006-12-28 21:22:42 · 16 answers · asked by Brooks C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
many of you were asking what my age was, and im 16.
2006-12-28 22:18:29 · update #1
Well, Im thirteen, i havent had a boyfriend, or a first proper kiss.
You sound asif you want one because everyone else has, but thats no problem.
I think it depends on finding the right person, not the first person you see.
If you just try being yourself (which is impossible for me), im sure one day, the person will come. And if that is you in your picture, im definatly sure, because your not ugly at all !
2006-12-28 21:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss on the cheek happened when I was 11 years old.
My first kiss on the lips (no tongue included) happened when I was 12.
My first french kiss happened when I was 13 but the guy was terrible.
So my first proper french kiss happened a few months ago.
I had sex when I was 16.
They all happened during pure and beautiful relationships (and I'm thankful for that because I didn't get hurt)
Now I'm 23 and when I look back I appreciate myself for not rushing into anything I didn't really want to do!
But how old are you? You seem so concerned!
2006-12-28 21:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be upset and give up, for there is plenty of time for boyfriends and first kisses. I wish that I could turn back time to my first b/f and kiss. Don't rush it, it will happen when you least expect it. My first kiss was at 15 and my first b/f at 16. Like you (when I was younger) I was eager to have a b/f, its not that big a deal, trust me, your best being friends with guys and having fun, then when you get older you can think about the serious stuff. Good luck.
2006-12-28 21:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 & I also haven't had either one of those (a girlfriend or a "first kiss". Now it all depends on when you are ready for them. I'm still not, however that's just me. I've never even been on a date when I tried to plan a few, so don't tell me it's time to give up. I'm not giving up yet. I hope to one day soon go on a date, but I don't think that it'll happen for me for a while longer.
I just hope that there is someone out there willing to deal with how I act normally. I hope we can both find someone that will make us happy.
Best of luck to you. :)
2006-12-28 21:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and I had my first relationship at 12(I'm very popular with boys at school so I suppose I was pretty lucky).I think there is no normal age for a relationship because the right person doesn't come at the same age-others have a boy/girl friend at 12 others at 13 others at 17 others at 25 others at 30 and so goes on.Finding a person you love and he loves you too is quite difficult(none of my friends had any relationships so far).If you are confident,I think the right person hasn't appeared yet-and I think it will so be patient.Can you tell us your age?-I think it's important.I hope I've helped you.
2006-12-28 21:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be adult enough for giving up. At least 18 years old. There are no time frames prescribed to get a boy friend. Depends upon ur choice.. You can get ur boyfriend as soon as you are attracted to a boy of your choice. I had my frist relationship at the age of 22 and same age frist kiss. As such there is no rule if u have boy friend anything can happen anytime.. You have to be bold and brave. Best of luck
2006-12-28 21:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time comes for you to have a boyfriend and to share a first kiss with him, it will happen. I had my first love at 20 years old because thats when it happened for me. I'm 24 and I haven't found someone I can have for longer that 4 months.
2006-12-28 21:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i rushed my 1st kiss because everyone at my school had done it and i felt the 'odd one out' so i went to a night club and kissed the first bloke that paid me any attention, not the best way to go about things i was 15 at the time, i think wait untill you meet that special someone, at the end of the day only you know you havent done it before, nobody else does, and you will feel so much better having waited for someone who truely cares about you x
2006-12-28 22:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no deadlines, no rules and no normal age for any of this. It will happen when the time is right---relax and let nature take its course. You need to find something else to think about. You don't do this stuff just because you think you have to. You do it when the right young man shows you respect and courtesy and maturity--be cool, take it slow and it will happen.
2006-12-28 21:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Accordig to me, u think too much.... about all these......... Boy friend & a kiss. Have patience. Do u want a bad guy as ur BF??? Ofcourse not................ Do u want a Bf for JUST Kissing you??? I hope not for this............. If ur Answers are also "NO" ..........then I suggest you to make good friends. "Good friends" mean who care for u, who loves u without being selfish.
And Once, u get GOOD FRIENDS or even only "1 Good Friend" u will not think these things...........&&&& It may be if u make 1 (Male) good friend being nice to him, doing care for him........... Then may be u wish to be with him "only...................
AND Then KISS............ FOR SURE HE WILL DO THAT...........
SO, I strongly suggest u to not think so much about only BF & KISS...... && Please dont take this think as your prestige issue.......
I hope my advice will work for you &&&& MOst Importantly........ u will understand all this.........
Good Luck!!!!!
n Also........
Happy n Prosperous New Year 2007.
2006-12-28 21:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋