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to marry Aisha bint Abu Bakr When she was just 9 yrs old?

2006-12-28 21:04:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

are Muslims deluding themselves about how wonderful he was?

2006-12-28 21:08:02 · update #1

I think it was WRONG but Muslims think it was OK!

2006-12-28 21:09:07 · update #2

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Well as I have learned Aisha was actually 6 years old and then consummated at 9.

I thought I got hit by a hammer when I heard that.I realize that many folks years ago married younger and their marriage was fixed by family members.

but a holy man?A 6 year old?and its OK for Allah?come again?

Then it continues with the muta thing temp marriage,concubines mistresses wives and and and .......NO,NOTHING IS OK!
Jesus doesn't do that !!!!!!

2006-12-28 22:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

first of all, her actual age is unknwown, rangind from 9-19. But for the sake of ur question i'll just say 9. All I can say is that at the time young marriages were very common and until just recently, many countries around the world sanctioned young marriages; especially when your life span is just 40 years, ur already done with 1/4 of your life! Anyway, the requirement in Islam is that she is of consenting age and agrees to the marriage (she started her period). If that is the case, you can't stop the marriage; and mind you, Aisha (RAN) was a very happy girl and loved her husband very much. Like ppl always say; love transgresses race, religion, looks and age so was the case w/the prophet so quit being a hypocrite. Go read the Bible and see what it says about marriage and then come back to me. Peace.

2006-12-28 21:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by justmyinput 5 · 2 2

The Prophet's contemporaries (both enemies and friends) clearly accepted the Prophet's marriage to `Âishah(R) without any problem. We see the evidence for this by the lack of criticism against the marriage until modern times. However, a change in culture has caused the change in our times today.

Even today in the 21st century, the age of sexual consent is still quite low in many places. In Japan, people can legally have sex at age 13, and in Spain they can legally have sex at the age of 12 years old[9].

A 40-year-old man having sex with a 14-year-old woman may be a "paedophile" in the United States, but neither in China today, where the age of consent is 14, nor in the United States in the last century. Biology is a much better standard by which to determine these things, not the arbitrariness of human culture. In the U.S. during the last century, the age of consent was 10 years old. California was the first state to change the age of consent to 14, which it did in 1889. After California, other U.S. states joined in and raised the age of consent too[10].

2006-12-28 21:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by sam 2 · 0 1

She married him with the Permission of her Father do you not think he was the person who made the decision? And for your dirty minds thinking bad things about the Prophet and Aisha, think if they did have intercourse would they not have had a child? Do your research none of the Prophet's Children were from Aisha. I can't guide you, only God can.

Rather 4 of his 5 children came from his first wife whom he loved very much Khadija. She was 40 when he married her and he was 25.

Please don't be accept all the anti-islam stuff, and read the Qu'ran and may God open your heart to true guidance.

Peace Be Unto You

2006-12-28 21:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

You are starting to sound just like old propet. Go away please.
As for the link poster above, Jack Chick is a moron. Jack Chick believes the Catholics are some kind of pagans that need to be saved by becoming "Christians" too. If it wasn't for the fact that ignorant uneducated people believe Jack Chicks tracts he would be a comedy.

2006-12-28 21:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Barabas 5 · 1 2

nicely what you have pronounced with reference to the say of prophet Mohammad is physically powerful yet do you be attentive to what does mean or the subject??? to attempt to ward off conflicts at abode alongside with your spouse is okay yet to not do undesirable issues after which you lie! this is not the case. To lie to your enemy interior the region of conflict and purely conflict you lie at them and that's tack tick of conflict and to not be fool and tell your enemy who's confronting you your tack tick. To settle the conflict between buddies you attempt to make the failings smaller than they grow to take heed to to through fact coming up courting is greater advantageous than breaking courting " and that i will point out a topic so which you would be able to describe it T o say to a minimum of one guy that say Ahmed is announcing good issues approximately your previous courting and you tell the different one which Nasser asked me to deliver greetings to you" So, this is an argument of helpful and not unfavorable kin as you perceived so, not analyzing one Haddith and purely speeding to declare this Islam, yet attempt to appreciate the entire concept.

2016-12-11 18:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You know nothing of Muhammad or his marriage to Aisha or the reasons behind it. Your ignorance is vast as is the hollow space between your ears.

And you don't know what Muslims think honey. Just like you don't know what the person sitting next to you on the bus thinks. Unless your telling us you read peoples minds now?

2006-12-28 21:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

In the time that happened, marrying young girls was very common. I am not saying I agree with it, but it was normal then.

2006-12-28 22:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 1 0

Look do you really want Muslims to go round talking about all the incest in the Bible?

INCEST AND RAPE BETWEEN BROTHER AND SISTER
" . . he took hold of her (Thamar, his sister),, and said unto her, Come lie with me (have sex with me), my sister. "And she answered him, Nay, my brother (Amnon, one of the sons of David, the man after God's own heart; Acts 13:22) do not force me . . . "But he would not listen to her, and since he was stronger than she was, he overpowered her and RAPED her (his sister). " 2 Samuel 13:5-14

AND THERE IS MUCH MORE OF IT IN THE BIBLE. SO DON'T BRING YOUR HATE FILLED , PURPOSE MADE QUESTIONS.

2006-12-28 21:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by By Any Means Necessary 5 · 0 3

Yes, because times were different back then..

2006-12-28 21:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 5 · 1 3

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