Out of every 100 guys I meet maybe one or two strike me as attractive and potentially amiable enough to pursue.
Be it online, in person, through friends.... it's the same story.
Every guy in the past year that has pursued me I have found to be anywhere from kind of unappealing to creepy and fugly.
It's been more than a year since I've met anyone special. I really hate this because I want to move on, I don't want to dwell on past men anymore. But how can I when there's no one around me that I can move on and start dating again with?
I've tried to look at men that I don't find cute/attractive physically and talk to them to see if I like them on personailty... but it never works. I need the physical chemistry. I just can't see someone THAT way if they don't look good. I really don't think that too much to ask either!
Am I too picky or is Miami really deviod of dateble men in the 19-23 age range?
2006-12-28 20:48:11 · 16 answers · asked by Whitnae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you are entitled to want whoever and the best way to find that person is quit looking, then when your least expecting it they will pop up.
2006-12-28 20:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by sephra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are, but i don't blame you because you only want the best partner I guess. But life isn't perfect and so with the man you will deal also. Try to explore and meet new people that will help you see and look at your future partner as challenging yet you will learn and grow with them.Being picky will let you pass the opportunity. Time will give you more choices but don't push beyond limits.
2006-12-28 20:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by ACEDEME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well looks aren't everything...you definitely need to get over having to have someone look good for you.
Eventually both you and the person you end up w/ are going to be old and not look so good anymore...
I mean I can see you not wanting someone who looks like a slob, but you don't want to be guilty of being so picky about looks that you come off as shallow...
2006-12-28 20:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by brittany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you are too picky. What I think is that you are still either in love or have very strong feelings for that last special person you mentioned. Stop comparing every person you meet to him. As soon as you get over that you will see the good in others. I really don't think you are ready yet.
2006-12-28 20:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by LaurenElyse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. What exactly are you looking for? There is no such thing as too picky, trust me, the right one will come along and when he does be prepared. Good luck!
2006-12-28 20:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you're not picky girl! You'll find your Prince Charming soon. When the time comes you both will find each other. Till then enjoy being single!
2006-12-28 20:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Monika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only being too picky if you aren't that hot yourself. But if you are good looking, wait till something attracts your eye.
2006-12-28 21:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to be attracted by d physical chemistry,its in our genes....but while talking to a handsome guy n u feel he's dump on the personality,then move around
2006-12-28 20:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not too picky!! Gotta be to get the right one and it will happen when it is time. Keep your eyes open and be open to new possibilities.
2006-12-28 20:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we are the problem not the men. have u set such high standards? believe me in life no one is perfect. its always good to appreciate a positive point and overlook a negative.
2006-12-28 20:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋