I met my gf 8 months ago, and I can honestly say I love her. However we have been apart for 2 months now. and we will probably be apart for the next 1-2 years due to odd circumstances.
The thing is emotionally i don't need anyone else, and our communication is daily, so that's not a problem. The problem is i'm finding myself looking at other women sexually, or even thinking about cheating.
I don't want to cheat, my gf is amazing, is there any advice to overcome these urges??
2006-12-28 20:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by whoareyou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See, if you love your girlfriend your conscience won't allow you to cheat even if your body physically craves for it. I understand its not easy to maintain a long distance relationship but just think if you can get through this phase of your relationship how strong and beautiful the bonding between the two of you will become.
And besides there's something called phone sex;)
2006-12-28 20:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Monika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you think about cheating imagine her with some guy in bed going at it. Think how you would feel if it happened.
Imagine the emotional impact it would have on your relationship. You say you dont need anyone else emotionally but if you cheat all of that is gone forever and brother that is unbelievably hard to find in another person. So keep it in your pants and just keep picturing her thinking the same thing you are and her acting on it. And then think how she would feel if she walked in on you with someone else.
If you cant control yourself then she isnt the one for you or you arent ready to have a steady girlfriend.
2006-12-29 04:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dont do it.
Do you think that your girlfriend will stay with you if she found out you were cheating in her??
Are these urges really worth loosing your girlfriend over.
Why dont you go and visit her.
On the other hand if this is going to be going on for the two years why dont ye take a break i know its easier said than done but i mean if your feeling this way now how do you think you will be feeling later on in life.
As they say if its meant to be it will be.
Why dont ye both talk about this after all she may just be feeling the excat same way?
Best of luck with it.
2006-12-29 05:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by aoife k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've only been a couple for 8 months, and now you aren't going to see her for possibly up to 2 years?!
Save yourself and your GF some heartache and end it for now. If in 2 years she is back on the scene, and you both happen to be available, then maybe you can rekindle the relationship.
Otherwise this is gonna be a torturous affair.l
2006-12-29 04:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex can rarely be satisfied so one cheat will lead to another am sure u dont want to hurt ur gf. why dont u tell her how u feel then am sure u can work things out. prayer helps too, so does reading the bible or thinking positively. create an inner peace for urself that nothing and no one can take away from u. God bless u for being honest
2006-12-29 04:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 8months and you get these urges? You sould break up with her and enjoy being single and sleeping around. I think you got into this relationship too soon. Good luck
2006-12-29 04:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont blame you, it seems like it would take two extremly devoted people to be faithful to each other for such a long time. I know that If I couldn't see my man for that long it would NEVER workout no matter how much I loved him. Not to be close to someone for that long is asking way too much! Deal breaker
2006-12-29 05:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If its just sexual craving get a plastic doll man or use your hand and some porn site. Dont cheat on your partner
2006-12-29 05:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by funnysam2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's being stupit what is the course of all this in the fist place.show ur girlfriend how much u love her and consatrate on ur relationship
2006-12-29 04:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by richardsmercy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop a habit of telling her everything you did each day. Then you can't afford any gaps.
2006-12-29 04:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋