When I am in the club and just want to dance ALONE some loser always comes over and trys his luck. They get all pissy when I tell them to get lost. So what is nice way to tell a man you are not looking for a loser? Thanks anyway. And why do they get all pissy. They don’t know me from Adam so what if I think they are losers? And when I am feeling generous and talk to them all they talk about is how I look. And all I am thinking is if he tried to be a bigger loser could he do a better job? Then I can’t lose him all night because I talked to him. How do you tell a man he is a total waste of space and should stick to the non hot ladies if this is his A game but in a nice way? AND why do men think women are interested in them when they have NOTHING to offer even an interesting conversation? Also why standing around telling me how I remind you of an old girlfriend from Africa or Brazil or Jamaica?
2006-12-28 20:30:53 · 7 answers · asked by ScottishhoustonGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a 2 carat platinum diamond ring with a matching wedding band.
2006-12-28 21:58:07 · update #1
I think a wedding band attract men. They think nice looking married lady by herself. No strings sex. I give them the blank stare. I ignore them when they talk then they repeat themselves. As if I couldn’t hear because of the music. They plant themselves near you with a loser smile on their face. They TOUCH ME. That eats me up. They brush their hand across my butt and tell me how they think I am sexy. ICK. Sorry I just throw up in my mouth. I always end up in a fight by the end of the night. Because I tell them in no uncertain terms they couldn’t lick my boots. But not so nice. Something about menstrual cycles and feminine parts. They get all pissy. I just want to drink my drinks and dance to a the few half decent songs they play not entertain so guy who’s car isn’t worth the ring on my finger. And has the education of a 3rd grader.
I want a nice way of saying I am not interested. I also get the question why? Why aren’t you interested in me you don’t know me.
2006-12-28 22:11:00 · update #2
Wear a big engagement ring and flash it! Tell him nicely that you fiance is a bouncer, but is on duty tonight, but he's a real jealous type so you just can't afford to be seen with other men. If that doesn't suit you - find a gay friend to go out with!
2006-12-28 20:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol...Well.. sounds like you meet some keeperS! Lolm j/k... well when you go out and they come up to you just say thanks but your having a ladies night out and your just trying to enjoy yourself. If they're persistent tell them to give you some space and that you'll save them a dance and you'll catch up with them a little later... then dont. That should get them off your back and allow you space that way they're just waiting around rather than underneath you... Also I dont know why they feel you should give them the time of day when they have nothing to offer... maybe its because so many other women give them the time of day they think you owe it to them in which you dont! So to those loosers you should let them know to step! and in no nice way either since they think they can just bring any ol thing to the table... Also let them know that you got to much going on to waste your time with someone that has nothing going on and your not going to spend time pulling conversation out of a moron that makes you feel like your pulling water out of stone... as far as the girlfriend thing they were probably just drunk and talking crazy.. remember it is the club and when alcohol gets mixed in people can loose themselves.
2006-12-28 20:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by TeQN'ical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm a man, and I honestly think that if a guy can't read the signals and tell when he's not welcome, he deserves all he gets. Be as rude as you like hun!
2006-12-28 21:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by nev 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just say, sorry I'm not interested. And he can't really get hurt by it because you can't help if you don't like him?
2006-12-28 20:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by l04i16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEEN THERE DONE THAT! AFTER MY DIVORCE WENT HEAVY INTO THE DANCE CLUBS IN MIAMI,DAYTONA FLA. THE BEST FIX THAT I HAVE SEEN IS JUST TURN AROUND EITHER WALK OFF OR MOVE ACROSS THE DANCE FLOOR. OR U COULD HAVE A FRIEND TO THE RESCUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT WORKS, BUT U HAVE TO CONSIDER THE ALCOHOL FACTOR.I AGREE WITH THE REPLY TO THE WEDDING RING,IT ATTRACTS MOST MEN BECAUSE MOST DO NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP.BUT IN MOST CASES I THINK WHEN A WOMEN IS OUT GETTING DRUNK AND DANCING,SHAKING HER ***,AND SHE KNOWS IT, TROUBLE WILL ARISE. JUST KEEP A EYE OUT FOR WHO IS WATCHING AND LOOKING TO COME ON OUT TO JOIN.
2006-12-30 18:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by todd L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wear a a fake wedding ring and when a "loser" steps up hold up your hand and when a guy you might be interested in walks up just tell them the actual use of the ring they will most likely understand.
2006-12-28 20:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by roachkmk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the *chic* stare - i mean blank stare. if he doesn't leave, tell him you remind him of your father. he'll get your point
2006-12-28 20:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋