my 2nd daughter like to use force to get her way, she likes to pinch or scream if she couldn't get wat she wants.. I try to talk nicely to her or explain to her but still doesn't work ..I oso tried to use punishment but it doesn't work oso..wat should i do??
2006-12-28 18:46:05 · 10 answers · asked by galaxyy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
shes 3 thats how they express themselfs. Just keep letting her know thats not right. Give her a chose of things she can say instead of pushing or whatever. Good luck !
2006-12-28 18:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by mindy s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give in, tell her she will not get what she wants until she asks properly. If she is doing it to get things she can not have, like a toy at the shop, or something then I would get down on her level tell her NO firmly and then continue what you are doing. If she is doing it in public then avoid having to take her shopping with you if that is at all possible. There is an excellent book by Dr Christopher Green called Toddler Taming. Try to get your hands on a copy. It is a brilliant book with a lot of good and realistic advice.
2006-12-29 02:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever give in. If she is doing it to get something you dont want her to have you have to stay firm. When you tell her no get down on her level. Use time out, usually it will get the point across and try a distraction, take her attention and put on something else. Something you know she loves that she can have
2006-12-29 02:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by bswbaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you punish her? Make sure you aren't using violence (spanking, slapping, etc.) This will just confuse her.
When your daughter gets mad, take her aside and calmly ask her what's wrong. Be patient and listen to her try to form sentences to explain it to you. Help her learn the words she needs to express her frustration - mad, sad, not fair, etc. Tell her to use words when she gets mad, and praise her like crazy when she does.
If she still gets violent, put her in a quite room by herself for 3 minutes (one minute for each year of age.) Make her stay in there quietly and then apologize before coming back to play.
2006-12-29 03:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My children used to bite and pinch so one day after having enough I bit then back. That stopped there.
2006-12-29 02:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My grandson is/was the same way. We found out that sugar was the problem. He also has to eat at the same time everyday.
2006-12-29 03:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by s_k_wilson1990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a phase but keep your grounds u dont want to give her a perception that its ok to behave that way as she grows
mom of 3 good luck
2006-12-29 02:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by revolution 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR USE A TIME OUT SET HER WITH HER NOSE IN A CONNER NOT TOYS ECT SET A TIMER FOR 30 MINS. WHERE SHE CAN NOT SEE YOU SET IT AND ALSO PUT HER ON HER KNEES WITH HER NOSE IN THE CONNER IF SHE IS STILL THAT WAY PUT HER A CROSS YOU LAP TAKE YOU HAND IF SHE IS IN DIAPERS POP THE LEG IF NOT TAKE SHORTS OFF LEAVING ON HER UNDER WEAR AND SPANK HER BOTTOM RED PUT HER IN HER ROOM AND SHUT THE DOOR IF SHE DO NOT STOP CRYING SAY YOU WANT SOME MORE OF JUST WHAT I GAVE YOU SHE WILL SAY NO YOU SAY WHAT NO MOMMY THAT STOPS THAT
2006-12-29 02:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
tame it now before it gets worse. My daughter does this and she is 6!
2006-12-29 04:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, GIVE HER A QUICK SPANK ON HER BOTTOM. MAY BE THAT WILL WAKE HER UP . AND KEEP TELL HER THAT SHE IS NOT BEING A NICE GIRL. AND GIVE HER SOME TIMES OUTS. PLEASE DON'T GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANT. I HOPE I HELP.
2006-12-29 03:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋