I'm getting the feeling that my boyfriend is considering proposing, and I want to know if it's just me, or if other logical people also think he's about to.
A week ago, we were semi-jokingly discussing engagement, just teasing each other a bit. Well, then he stepped into the other room, and casually called to me, "So, what kind of ring would you want?"
Then, earlier this evening, we were at a bookstore, and I saw this little Q & A book about how well a man "knows his bride", so I picked it up, and started asking my boyfriend a couple of the questions; I stopped at one point, because he was browsing books, and he turned to me and said, "Ok, well, what's the next question, then?", as though he were really interested in it. Then, he asked me if I wanted him to buy me the book, and I told him that was okay, but thank you, and he said, "I'm buying it for you, anyway", and he did.
We've been dating for 10 months & friends for over 4 years...I'm 22, he's 24...what do you think?
2006-12-28 18:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by Maria V. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes, yes...I am so much in love, and very ready for him to ask me! :) I know we are young (especially me), but he has a college degree and a good job, and I will finish college in May. We don't have to get married anytime soon, I would just be thrilled to be engaged to him, and know that we would get married in a year or more, when we feel fully prepared to do so.
2006-12-28 18:29:41 · update #1
Sounds pretty promising! So, I'll just wish you CONGRATS!
2006-12-28 18:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by redneckgardendiva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when you're really intimate friends then why shy away, You know friend, men are not always quick to such lines. So I think the most important thing is getting to know one another, behaviouwise better which of course surely you've done during your courtship period, or not so, Now just try quorting out that special part of life don't wait for him to propose, see how he'll react and from that point you'll be one of the greatest ladies in the world. The early the better coz you know he's not just handsome to you only but somebody is gathering courage somewhere and will come pointing out the subject straight away that may automatically win, so take care, go ahead. Age should not be a burning issue coz all of you are grown ups.
Remember to maintain your livelyness and love and many. Congratulation for your chosen partner, greet him.
Bye.
2006-12-28 19:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by jeyomosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely on his mind - if he's asked what kind of ring you'd like, he's certainly thinking about it. It may take him a bit of time to work up to it and/or do it the way he'd like though - but it never hurts to drop some hints and make sure he knows what colour you prefer (ie. yellow or white gold), what style, maybe even work in your ring size... (Really, that just makes it easier on him.) If you do it subtly (and if he's anything like my fiance!) he won't even know that you suspect - he'll think he's just making polite conversation.
Don't be disappointed if it doesn't happen at a big time though (ie. New Years) - some people feel that makes it more special, some people feel it takes away from the moment. Either way, it sounds like you've found your man - congrats on that!
2006-12-28 18:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men won't entertain conversations like that unless they are interested in dropping the question at some point or another. Few men just ask with no idea of what his lady will say. So, yes, he's feeling you out to be sure that you will say, "yes". He may not ask for a while, but it's on his mind.
2006-12-28 18:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sure doesn't sound like he's getting ready to break up with you!
Your behavior now will probably be the key to what he does. Do you want him to propose? It won't be hard for you to signal that to him. Do you want him NOT to propose? That might be a little harder to signal, but not impossible.
If you're sure of what YOU want, the simplest thing might be to be a bit more direct. Hard to do when you're young, but oh, the agony it saves if you can find it in yourself to just tell him what you're feeling when you think about being married (to him, especially).
2006-12-28 18:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mark H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS, you sounds so sweet and I am sure your BF knows that. It is an exciting moment for you and enjoy every minute of this. If you have a journal, keep these anecdotes for keeping and making memories. Your boyfriend seems to be attentive in what interest you and that is important. Both your age are perfect. HAPPY NEW YEAR
2006-12-28 18:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by trykindness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps locate some photographs from a pamplet approximately diamonds and engagement rings, to circle and jot down notes and go away it laying around. Take him to a jewellery save so he's conscious your length and what your alternatives are with reference to stones and settings ... in simple terms in case.
2016-10-28 15:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by gilbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a sweetheart. It sure sounds like he's working up to the big question. I wouldn't be suprised if he waits until the anniversary of your first date.
2006-12-29 02:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by orangeflameninja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds promising...my husband proposed at 8 months ..I didn't have a clue....we have been married 17 years....
best of luck to you....
2006-12-28 18:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by LeftField360 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your boyfriend should start some serious discussion about the future.
2006-12-28 18:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋