I was just wondering if its againt the islam religion to be in relationships. Because i wanna get into one and im a religious guy and yes i am muslim and i am startin to pray because at the age of 14 is the age ur supposed to start. And i wasnt sure if its alowwed or not. and if u are are u allowed to kiss. I dont wanna go against my religion and do somethin wrong i jus wanna be in a relationship and im not sure what to do
2006-12-28 17:42:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well pre-marital sex is prohibited in every major religion, not just Islam and that is the primary point so as long as you can avoid that (if you are a religious person) I don't see any harm in it.
And dude, it's between you and God so if over-enthusiastic people give theories here binding your life, ignore them and think about the fact that no one has to live your life or be presented before God for your acts.
I eventually married my GF of six years and yes, I am a Muslim. if anyone thinks I will go to hell for that well they can kiss my ****.
Cheers
2006-12-28 17:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong to have a girl friend or to love somebody. But in Islam, Allah has stated the rules between women and man that is not married yet.
Thus, u have to know what is the rules and limits between man and women. In Islam, women and man can't touch each other, it is sins to do that, whats more if u kiss somebody which is not ur "muhrim", it is sins.
U have to study more young man, the basic rules of Islam if u want to be a good muslims.
May Allah blessed u..
2006-12-28 17:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by sweetzy 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Salaam brother thank you to your question. Inshallah il answer to the final of my potential: a guy and a woman are actually not allowed to be on my own jointly, and any actual touch in the previous marriage is forbidden. for this reason, relationship isn't approved in Islam. Allah has prohibited lady/boyfriend relationships interior the Qur'an "(Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women folk from the believers and chaste women folk from people who have been given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) in the previous it sluggish, once you have given their due Mahr (bridal-funds given via the husband to his spouse on the time of marriage), needing chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock) not committing unlawful sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girlfriends. ... ” - Al-Ma'idah 5:5. examine Quran, make dua for Allah to maintain you on ryt song. stay content fabric and stead speedy interior the failings you do i.e. praying. do zhikhr
2016-10-19 03:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a girlfriend is not against with islamic religion.But a guy should treat his girlfriend in line with islamic religion.Adultery or having sex and kissing on her lips,before marriage is prohibited. You can not go out both with your girlfriend without the permi- ssion of her parents and your girlfriend should be accompanied by her brother or sister.(her muhrim)..Your girlfriend should use Jilbab if she is approached by you because you are not her muh-
rim..You can shake hand with her and kiss only her arms.
2006-12-28 18:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Peace Upon You
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2006-12-30 01:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Marzouk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Islam you must first have a goat-friend to see if you can handle a girlfriend, praise Allah
2006-12-28 17:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by man of ape 6 · 3⤊ 4⤋
ask ur parents i no its hard or ask someone ur close 2
2006-12-28 17:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex slaves if you want as permitted in Quran sura 33:50
"O Prophet! We have made lawful to thee thy wives to whom thou hast paid their dowers; and those whom thy right hand possesses out of the prisoners of war whom Allah has assigned to thee......"
2006-12-28 17:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Try reading "why i am not a muslim" by ibn warraq.
2006-12-28 17:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋