i need to stop being so upset over things, when im alone i just think to much, i need to learn to stop haveing a heart
so i dont cry
it gets really hard 4 me of the night and i keep myself up, trying to find of ways to harden my hear, im just sick of being this careing person
2006-12-28 17:35:27 · 13 answers · asked by louise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having a caring heart is not something that is bad. Some people would give ANYTHING to have a caring heart OR to have a friend that had a caring heart... take it from my personal experience, I have helped MANY friends and I will forever be in their hearts. I dont care if they ever pay me back. I know they are forever grateful to them knowing that I got them through a rough time. To me, I dont care about people giving back to me I would rather help them in their time of need than be an irrogant person that wouldn't care about other peoples problems and only worry about myself. Please take my advice to heart and know that you having a very caring heart isn't a bad thing and knowing that you will always be able to talk to someone...(ex.. church, friends, etc.) I hope this answers your question
2006-12-28 17:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by matt s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know how to tell you how to stop, but you need to for your health. Being stressed like that can really make you sick all over. Why don't you go to your Dr. and tell him how you are feeling. You may need an antidepressant or something to help you. I know what you are going thru because I have a heart of gold and worry about everyone and everything, but I have had to start thinking of my health because I can't change anything but myself and I am really working on that. I pray a lot about it and with God's help, I will make it and so can you. I will be praying for you. Please don't stop being the kind and caring person you are. There are so few people like you left and you are unique. The world needs more people like you. Good luck and I wish you all the happiness in the world.
2006-12-28 17:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dyan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It never really stops , the caring nature , although I did find something that helped. I took a trip to the middle of a city i am not familiar with and i spent 3 days being as mean and rude to everyone as i possibly could. Made me feel like crap but it helped..i stopped seeing peoples feelings and just saw myself getting out the anger I felt.
I wouldn't recommend doing this in a city where you plan to live or ever plan on seeing again... and do have protection of some sort.
Cause you never know if you piss off the wrong person.
2006-12-28 17:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should never second guess yourself. There is nothing wrong with being a caring person. The problem about being a caring person is that it put you in a position to be taken advantaged of.
2006-12-28 17:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've got been advised approximately 10000 cases that i'm not a real Christian (TM) as a results of fact my ideals do not fall in with the extremist occasion line. I proportion a number of your perspectives. I carry citizenship in a mundane us of a (the US). there are various paths to God. I take part in the two Christian and non-Christian rites. i'm not afraid of non-Christian impacts. I refuse to apply my faith as an excuse for bigotry and hatred. besides, congratulations for not attempting to shove the Divine right into a one-length-suits-all field.
2016-10-19 03:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you may be caring deeply for people that don't feel the same way about you. That is always an incredibly painful situation. Save your emotions for someone that equally shares theirs with you, then you won't be taken for granted, you're caring personality will then be appreciated as it should be
2006-12-28 17:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by aswad h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to control your emotions in front f everyone & cry as much as you can when you are lonely. Would you like to be my freind,plz. Iwould surely try to make you happy
2006-12-28 17:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by ujjwal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like some type of anxiety issues. Maybe you should talk to your doctor about it.
Yoga is also a wonderful thing.
2006-12-28 18:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur caring, thats good but the thing is ur probably a people pleaser. you try to do things to please others but it doesnt really please them at all. what youve gotta do is start finding out what you want in life, not what others or ur bf or gf want, ull be happy if u find out what you want and go for it
2006-12-28 17:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy,or hang out with friends.
2006-12-28 17:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋