It seems like i can never get a girl because they think im to nice. But i just cant help who i am. so answer me this please.
A) Why do girls like jerks better than nice guys? and
B) What can i do to make my self more jerk like?
2006-12-28 17:33:12 · 19 answers · asked by J_Dawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be a fool and change who you are just so girls will like you as you will later see on in life is that all the jerks will either get killed, end up in jail, or stuck in a dead end job because they knocked some girl up when they were still in high school. The nice guys always finish last supposedly. around middle school and high school years you shouldn't worry about having a girlfriend or not because you really should be focused on school. you should be having fun and enjoying drama free life without the bickering the nagging and the high telephone bills. because in the end the nice guys get into great colleges because they were determined in their school work and ended up in great paying jobs and they end up with all the girls. so in the long run, you'll be the guy with all the girls. and even some of the girls that you once knew back in high school or middle school will see how successful you've become and will be hoping that they could go back in time and be able to say "that was my old boyfriend back in middle/high school."
2006-12-28 17:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Liliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you know as well as we do that u are not wanting 2 really learn how 2 be more of a "jerk" be careful what u ask cuz with a stupid question comes a stupid answer... But im going 2 be gentle with this 1 anyway....
Being the "friend" is a tough thing but its not the worst!!! You're obviously worthy of being considered such, u should appreciate that!! I can guarantee you the right woman will.
Dont be so timid, maybe u should try being more bold & approaching women in a more romantic manner if you're interested, and not focusing so hard on making sure they like you. Its okay 2 be yourself, but be persistent at the same time. And if its relevant at all.....many good relationships start as freindship
2006-12-29 01:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say from experience that this is unfortunately true most of the time. I used to date jerks and married a nice guy. But, it took me till 37 to settle down with a nice guy. DON'T CHANGE, being a good guy is who you are, and the right woman will like you for you. Besides, would you want to be with a woman who is that stupid that she wants a jerk? I used to kick myself for some of the nice guys I let slip through the cracks. I think it is just the age old saying of we want something we can't have and when jerks reject us, we chase them so we can feel wanted. If they wanted us back, then we would probably think they were jerks.
2006-12-29 01:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by babygrlpls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think they like the jerks but they will realize later that it is really the nice guy they want. Just be yourself and be patient. The right girl is out there.. just wait for her.
Do not change being nice. Do not become a jerk.
2006-12-29 01:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget this chick and dont become a jerk, theres not enough nice guys out there trust me if you want to become a jerk let me come over to your house and slap you because i would give anything to meet a nice guy that wont change.. if you want to be more like a jerk break a girls heart and never even know it then go back to trying to be her friend then date one of her friends and talk about her all the time to that girl and i think most people will think your a jerk esp that girl oh yea and be a total *** to everyone including your friends
2006-12-29 01:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by XñΘ×ØÑΣ×└Ö√ËŠ×╫ë®X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok one Don't try to change urself for ANYONE, its better to be hated becuase of who you are are then loved for someone your not. If your not happy then neither will the person that you are w. You just haven't found the right girl for you..Just wait why is everyone in such a hurry to get in a serious relationship, and instead of like trying to be all love dubby try being just a friend don't evn think of other things, trust me if you consentrat on that you will have a gf in no time, girls want someone that they can laugh and share there secrets with, and + girls never stay w. the jerks they are just desperate and want the attention. BE URSELF AND OTHERS WILL LOVE YOU. happy new years *toast*(too good relationships!)
2006-12-29 01:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Adddison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DON'T make yourself more jerk-like. I'm 51 and wish I COULD find a nice guy--all the jerks I've had in my past are just that--jerks--and notice I'm not with any of them. I don't know your age but am assuming you are a teenager--and teenage girls are rebelling against what they know their parents want--that is to date a nice guy ( The ole--if the folks like him he must be a nerd!)
Be patient and wait--continue to be nice--it will be worth the wait for the girl who appreciates your niceness--nice guys really do finish FIRST--not last.
2006-12-29 01:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 'bad' boys are often FUN and the 'nice' guys are often SERIOUS. Often people that just want to have fun stay away from the guys that have 'serious relationships only' vibe coming off of them. When they have had their fun and ready to settle down, they go looking for the 'nice' guys later on (usually after everybody has done irreparable damage their lives). So don't 'jerk up' just learn how to have FUN.
2006-12-29 01:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls often want guys that act like jerks because its a challenge and that we girls are not that sure if we can have them.. And when a guy that is nice, the girls take them more of a secondary..as a friend or a rebound..but everyone think differently..i like sweet guy but my friends like jerks..
2006-12-29 01:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls go for Jerks. Alot of girls go for nice guys. Just be yourself and you'll find that special someone. Maybe those girls that likes jerks likes them not for their personality.
2006-12-29 01:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by socal.femme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋