I'm havin a gf 4m past 1 n a half year..but she has never allowed me to kiss her(french kiss)..i know that she loves me much more than i dooo...im not able to understand y she doesnt allow me to do so.. im confused..bcoz of wich i get suspicious on her sumtimes.. plz give me sum points that can help me in dis lovin process..plzzzzzzzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-28 17:30:15 · 34 answers · asked by Sahil N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe shes never kissed before and is afraid she wont be any good. or maybe she just isnt into kissing. once she starts she'll realize how much fun it is.. you should talk to her about it. and ask her if you can kiss her. just a short regular kiss at first. maybe she'll want more after that.
2006-12-28 17:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though you have not mentioned your age, I am trying to answer this. I guess you are an Indian or at least South Asian. You should be aware that the french kiss is not prevalent in our part of world and moreover, it is a taboo as well. So, you are trying to do something which is not in vogue.
Secondly, you are in love with the girl and even she loves you. I hope you two are committed also. From the question, it appears that the girl has no objection to a simple kiss. What are you up to? Once you graduate to a french kiss, you are making your sort of hidden agenda (sexual intentions) clear. Are you really interested in that? If not, respect her feelings and keep this thing for a very special moment, say, the engagement ceremony etc. I still hope you are committed... And you should be as she seems to be a nice girl.
Best Wishes...
2006-12-28 17:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her somewhere where moon is bright and quiet
, even its cold.Bring red wine and two glasses.
Tell her I have fantasy or dream , its drinkig wine under the moon with my love, and kiss her.
1. first drink wine a glass
2.hug her and kiss her slightly saying yo are my living fantasy
3.and kiss her again slghtly
4.and then open her lips smoothly with something red in your mouth.
2006-12-28 17:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just not comfortable with kissing that way you should kiss her the way she wishes and respect her rights. exactly why are you suspicious of her? I hope it's for a good reason if it's because of the way she prefers to be kissed it's kind of a stupid reason. Also if you love her you wouldn't try to push her into anything she doesn't feel comfortable with
2006-12-28 17:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to slow down and let her go at her own speed. It is not right that you should be pressuring to do something that she doesn't feel comfortable doing. If you love her as much as you claim then you need to back off and slow down. Let her make the decisions about what she wants to do. She is probably very nervous and has not had a lot of experience with males. If you don't slow down she is going to get rid of you. Good luck.
2006-12-28 17:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you suck at it or she's had bad experiences previously with it. Girls get extremely paranoid for the silliest of reasons. Unfortunately the more you push the more she'll back off, the best chance you have is to never try it or push for it again and she may eventually try it herself. There's no guarantee however, and yes this 'back off and you may get what you want but most likely not' method is instigated by women and basically is just another way for them to be pandered to and to control you!
2006-12-28 17:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 her about it. and if u really love her then ull understand y she cant. Maybe she dosent no how and shes nervous about it. Maybe she wants it to be the rite moment. ASk her wats up for sure. Tell her u really want to kiss her or create a romatic date and invite her over to ur house were she wud get the signals that u want to kiss her.
2006-12-28 17:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by razorsharpdut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem man.
u can kiss her on other exposed parts of her body like her hands, neck, cheeks etc. in a very soft and romantic way.
I m sure she wont be able to resist.
or otherwise, if she is simply kissing u on lips, then y do u want to french kiss? I think simple lip kiss is also very hot and romantic.
Best of Luck !
2006-12-28 19:30:05 · answer #8 · answered by SEXY GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, dont get suspicious of her. That only makes girls angry, trust me!
Have you tried talking to her about it? Tell her that you are ready to do so. She might feel uncomfortable opening up like that to you and is scared of feeling vulnerable. You have to comfort her and let her know that you care for her. She will come around eventually.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 17:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by Chanclito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you is to learn how to spell correctly. It is obvious that you know how to spell but you choose to spell with the typical Ebonics abbreviations and slang. White boy grow up and then worry about the french kiss thing!
2006-12-28 17:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋