You loved her too and the time you spent together felt so right. But you constantly doubted her fidelity and that was the cause of your 6-7 breakups in the span of a 2 months. Then you went completely crazy on her and said the most hurtful things you could think of to her. She decided it was best to not keep in touch. I miss her and have accepted that I really hurt her and maybe it is not the best for us to be together, I am just curious if she or any female thinks they could forgive me if that happened to them?
2006-12-28 17:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a chic, but I think you are just gonna have to charge this one to the game my man
2006-12-28 17:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its forgivable but a person cant expect someone to live with someone so insecure that they hurt the one they love the most.
My ex husband did that to me nearly every day for years and I never looked another man! He wouldnt let me have friends...he started a fight if I wanted to visit family. I stayed cuz I was married...even marriage made him more insecure...that and his alcoholism sent me packing and never looked back after 5 years of it. It didnt drive me into anyone else's arms...it only drove me crazy sad and out of his life. Seems that's exactly what you did.
He told me a year or so after our divorce that he was doing the same thing to his new partner and he realized he had a problem.
It made him unlovable to be around uno but because he worked on this...he overcame it and married the girl and they are still together happily.
Its a very insecure and bad habit to have. I hope you realize it and be more secure in your next relationship. good luck
2006-12-29 01:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she will forgive if not try these:
send her messages in cute ways like stencilling a mug.
let your feelings fly to her.let her know that your in love.
ask her to start again from the start like that you didn't know each other to rebuild your relationship.
EnD
2006-12-29 01:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by bryan_closa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can forgive, though it would never really be the same as before, but they can forgive, and you can move on
2006-12-29 01:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋