2006-12-28 17:17:12 · 14 answers · asked by hello kitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why rush? Wait until your settled a little more. 18 is the legal age of marriage, but it's better to wait until your 20s.
2006-12-28 17:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would finish my studies first. Otherwise you may look back and regret and blame the fact you did not do something that you really wanted to on another.
I do not blame mine on another but I do regret that I did not do things differently. I was married at 18 then had a child and I wanted to do so much more, but I put my life on hold to raise my children. Now I am going back to school. I encouraged my children to go to college and get all the education they could before stepping into the rest of the adult responsibilities. There is so much for you to experience now while you are young. High school and College are times to learn and make friendships that will take you into your adult life. It is a time to find yourself and your career for life. Take your time if they really love you they will agree to wait and you will have a better marriage. If it is only fleeing then you have saved a divorce. Take care.
2006-12-29 01:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18, life is just really starting. There is so much still left to see and do during your 20s, and while you may legally be an adult you still have a lot of life to experience. At 18, you're still figuring out who you are and where you want to go in life. I say wait until you're out of college and are settled into a job. Experience life for the time being, and if the person truly loves you they will wait for you to be ready for marriage.
2006-12-29 01:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is legal and you are sure it is the best thing to do, yes. It is an early age. I was married at 18 and I have no regrets about it. It is not the age for everyone. Make sure you have looked at the big picutre before you leap. Get lots of pre-marital counseling as a couple so you are as sure as you can be. Good luck.
2006-12-29 01:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by the Goddess Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You have to have a life before you can share it. The life you have now is about school and such. In five years your life will change and you will change and your partner will change. You may no longer be a good match for each other by that time. Who you are now is not necessarily who you will be when you graduate and enter the working world and make a life for yourself.
2006-12-29 01:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be studying how to spell correctly, how to write a simple question, when to use capitals and spaces. Eighteen is very young to get married, enjoy your teens and don't think about marriage until you're at least 21.
2006-12-29 01:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age of 18 is ok to get married but just finish your study first and get settled (age of 22 is fine to get married)
2006-12-29 01:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by AEMB4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm my sister is going to do that, and our dad doesn't even know about it lol. I think it's crazy because I don't think it will work out. She demands too much. Poor guy Well do what you want to do, but make sure you tell your family, because family is important
2006-12-29 01:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a bit too young
im 18 too but i dont think im ready to
heave a big responsibilty up my shoulder
getting married is a big choice dont rush it
2006-12-29 01:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Fallen_ AngeL♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be interested to know the outcome of this question now seven years has passed.
2014-04-17 17:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by No! One Nose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋