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My boyfriend has been pushing me to tell my family that we live together. I have gotten to the point where they know I spend "most nights" there, and a few key people know that we live and sleep together. Now, we are visiting his family, and he won't even kiss me in front of them because he dosen't want them to think that we are doing anything "wrong" (he doesn't want them to catch on that we are sleeping together.) Now I am a bit upset by this; I confronted him and he is doing slightly better (he held my hand!!) but is still being totally weird about it. This is not the first time I have met his family, and I am 19 and he is 29 if that makes a difference at all. Thanks!

2006-12-28 16:42:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

They know how old I am, and they don't have a problem with it. The thing is, the last time we were here I passed out in his room a couple of times, and they did not like it. They were not super angry, they just were not overjoyed. But he doesn't want to upset them, or cause any suspicions, so he won't do anything with me. However, I feel that he should take his own advice and "just be honest with his family because they'll always love him." I'm not asking him to tell them we're living together, just to kiss me once in a while!

2006-12-28 16:54:58 · update #1

3 answers

I THINK THE AGE DIFFENT IS THE KEY TO THE WHOLE THING,HE DOES NOT WANT HIS FAMILY TO KNOW THAT
HE DATING A MUCH YOUNGER WOMEN,BUT IF YOU AND
HE ARE LIVING TOGETHER THEN WHY HAVE HAVE HE
INTRODUCED YOU TO HIS FAMILY. SOUND LIKE THERE
IS MORE THAT GOING ON. AND YOU NEED TO TALK TO
HIM ABOUT THIS.

2006-12-28 16:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

Find you a nice 20 year old guy so when he acts like this you can justify this behavior or better yet find a grown up 29 year old.

2006-12-29 01:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0 0

sounds like ehs embarassed of you if he doesnt even want to be near you with his family around. I would let him go now b4 it gets worse

2006-12-29 00:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Catie 5 · 0 0

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