My boyfriend is hiding his myspace from me, he has it set up as private. But somehow I got in his myspace without him knowing about it and he just has a bunch of girls on there. He is saying he is single and he just keeps adding alot of girls!!! He decided not to add each other, but it just doesn't feel right!! Is this normal or should I let it slide? What should I do? Serious answers only please.
2006-12-28 16:30:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ew. Dump him. He's definitely not worth it.
2006-12-28 16:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Massacre 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, it sounds as if he sees you as a 'friend' rather than a serious partner. It would be appropriate for him to have this side of his life away from you if he was just a friend.
Are you sure he is as committed as you are, or is he keeping his options open? You shouldn't need to see if he is running a my space web page or any other web page that he's collecting 'new friends' on without your knowledge. It's good for neither you nor him, as you will not trust him, and he will not trust you.
I think the best thing to do is back away quietly (a lot easier said than done) for your own sense of self-respect, or if you believe you are having a serious relationship with him, approach him and let him know how this makes you feel. If he's not willing to listen, he's not ready for a relationship with you.
Good luck! (hope it all works out) :-)
2006-12-28 16:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nadya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree u should dump him, u should come first and he shouldnt be looking at other girls. U should be # 1, there is no room for talk on that one.
2006-12-28 16:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Smoke Eater 512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him! He is lying and cheating - even virtual cheating is wrong! Stand up for yourself and leave him! I just saw my ex last week after one year and he treated me bad so I put my foot down and told him that I NEVER wanna see him again!
You need to cut him out of your life, there are much too much good guys out there who would treat you better:)
2006-12-28 16:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hottie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you should break up with him. You should inform his and your parents about his situation. For your sake you better have a lot of friends, especially guys. Once parents deal with this he might start to hate and stalk you. He'll do something bad to you. If you have a lot of friends, stay with them so that they will back you up and defend you. If you don't want to do that, send one of your friends to spy on him.
2006-12-28 16:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if you have been with your boyfriend for a while he should start taking you seriously but if you just met him a few weeks ago he does not really have too
anyways if you want my advice this relationship is not based on honesty its most likely a painful end end it now
2006-12-28 16:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if a man feels he needs to lie about stupid little crap...then dump him because who knows what he has lied about in the past....or what lies he will tell in the future
2006-12-28 16:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him about it. see what he says. if he continues to lie, try to prove it to him. if you cant deffenently don't let it slide. it isn't right. if you cant prove it and he continues to keep it private just dump him. you don't deserve a disrespecting man. if he truly loved you he wouldn't do this. its not worth it. trust me.
2006-12-28 16:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Darkstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess this situation is normal. you see, he's cheating on you. give him another chance and try to see if he is dating them or meeting them or interacting with them(i.e. chatting, calling,voice messaging). tell him your upset of what he is doing then break up with him.tell him he is no the right GUY.
2006-12-28 16:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by girl next door 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is doin the same thing. i just got his password and deleted the girls or talked to them and told them that he had a girlfriend
2006-12-28 16:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by a girl with no clue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋