2006-12-28 16:28:26 · 21 answers · asked by lovelove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first let me ask you. how old are you? if you are an adult and doesn't live with your parents anymore and you have a job then you can love whoever you want to love your a grown woman/man you can make your own decision, but you have to listen to what your parents are telling you too. did you even stop and try to hear what they're saying to you.maybe they saw something with this person that you love that you didn't.
but if you know that this person is worth it, then go ahead be with him/her that is your life your living, your parents already lived they're lives
explain to them that you know aht your doing and if they are right and you made a mistake then so be it.
2006-12-28 16:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by binibining pilipina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, what you do here is going to depend on your age - namely if your parents are your legal guardians or if you are already of age (18+).
In the case of the later, you can choose as you wish about who you see and parental opinion is the same as any other outside opinion... in the former it holds a lot more weight. But aside from that, in either case, it's probably something that matters to you. And chances are that your parents are thinking of your best interests - or at least what they think is in your best interest, when they express that they don't like them (as not liking him probably really means they don't like that person with you).
So, be mature and sit down and talk to them. If you are 18+, you can play the card that you are an adult and can make your own choices... if not, explain that you want to be mature and make your own choices. And in either case, continue that you want to understand why they do not like him because you have a very different opinion. Talk it out - you may come to see something you've not see before, and they too may see things in a different light. But communication is the start to solving any such issue.
2006-12-28 16:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Paul S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so up to you and how you both feel about each other. Your parents should be happy that your happy. They should get over it and let you live your life. Maybe they need to get to you love one better and they might change there mind. Parents are sometime over potective of there kids and don't like anyone that is getting to close to there child. Take one day at a time with them they should come around when they relize you are in love with each other and want t makeyour relationship work. good luck !
2006-12-28 16:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by scribble_rags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had that problem, and it never really got resolved. I just stayed with him to make my parents angry and it worked. But, if I could go back and do it again, I wouldn't have been with him. He didn't treat me well either. So, if this person you love, treats you well, then talk to your parents about it. Tell them of all the good qualities he has. But, what I would say is tell him to wait, if he loves you like you love him, then he will. Wait till your out of your parents house and then love him.
2006-12-28 16:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by amazon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents why they don't like the person you love. Most often than not, parents are always right and they only want the best for their children. Think over what they would say and see if they are right, if not fight for your love. You and your love should be the one to make a way for your parents to like him/her. Goodluck.
2006-12-28 16:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Empress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've love... that sounds like the past... and if it is... keep it in the past. No use digging skeletons..
Unless, you still love him and plans to be with him.. then... try talking to your parents, spending time (QUALITY) with them. Make them see why you love him and why he makes you happy and why he is the best for you.
Try and involve him to help make your parents are suited to be together. If that doesn't work, then you have to make a serious decision.
Don't be rash... think it out. There is no right/wrong answer... just an answer right for you.
2006-12-28 16:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important if your parents like the person you are with but if they don't then they don't. You are the one that has to put up with the person not your parents. As long as the person you are with is making you happy and treating you right then stay with them.
2006-12-28 16:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Shajazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't they like them? Find this out first..
Parents can be really smart sometimes and see things we can't --especially when we're blinded by love.
If it's nothing major, then who cares what they think. It's ultimately YOUR LIFE, and YOU have to decide who your future partner is going to be. They won't be the ones living with this person forever, but you will.
Good luck!
2006-12-28 16:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIND OUT WHY THEY DONT LIKE HIM! Is it legitimate?
If so then keep them away from each other
but whatever you do dont try to change either one of them. If a mother can love both of her kids, you can love your parents and your boyfriend
2006-12-28 16:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out why your parents don't like him, then ask yourself if your parents' opinion is really worth your relationship. if it's something to do with his criminal history or other major issue, i'd say break up with him. if it's small, like an annoying habit, keep him, unless you yourself think the habit is annoying and you just can't stand it. good luck =)
remember: the only person who's allowed to change your guy is himself.
2006-12-28 16:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋