How to find a girl in southern california? any suggestions?

Question

Looks like nothing is working for me. And, I am 27 year old. Help...

Answer 1

Know this- she is waiting for you. Smiling is good. Humor is good. Hygiene...good. Flattery...good. Just be yourself 'cuz you need to be accepted for who you are.

Answer 2

How many girls have you approached? Go to places where you're likely to find girls that you are interested in- if you're the outdoorsy type go surfing, studious type go to the bookstore, if you're both go to a store that sells books on surfing.

Then, see a girl you like, go up to her and be funny and confident. When she asks what you do say something funny like "I wrestle sharks to make the ocean safer for surfers everywhere", or something goofy, just not what you normally do. Don't talk about your personal life because it's probably boring- let your personality speak for itself.

Have a good conversation for a couple of minutes- then tell her you have to run but it was nice meeting her and, hey, why don't we trade e-mails so we can get together some other time. If she's available and she gives it up then go to a cool cafe or somewhere laid back where you can have a good time. Talk about interesting things and focus on laughing and enjoying the moment- not getting laid.

And finally, try to meet 3-4 girls a week. Don't listen to the haters that say the women in LA are only interested in meeting a guy that has a lot of money/drives a nice car/whatever... they're just lonely and angry and are taking it out on the women when they need to take it out on the man in the mirror. Just be cool- eventually you'll meet the right one if you put in the effort!

G'luck sport.

Answer 3

Get involved in something. The more stuff the better. The best place to find a girl has always been school. Church is another great place. But getting involved in anything where there are a bunch of young women around is terrific. Some sort of charity or something like that. See, if you and some girl are working at something, you become close to her, because you are experiencing the same sorts of things. Consider going to an adult class. Consider getting involved in a play. Consider some other group. Going out to bars is tough. You can't hear. You can't talk. You are getting drunk. And the girl is having a few too many as well. You cannot connect, so, unless you are a beautiful looking guy that any girl could not resist, you won't do too well in a bar. I never did.

I met my wife working in a National Park. You see, National Park consessionaires hire a bunch of people in the spring and summer and then lay them off (or expect them to leave) when the summer ends. I was one of these spring and summer workers. So was my wife, but she was from a state a couple thousand miles from my home. But we lived in the park together. We began working at the same time. We had a lot of the same very wonderful experiences. In some ways (although not all certainly), it's like boot camp. Everyone goes through the same experiences at the same time and this causes the people involved to become close to each other. An emotional bond is created. That's what occurred with my wife and I. That was in 1993.

A similar thing happens in regular work places, but it isn't usually as strong. It happens in school, too.

Another thing you might try is the Diabetes society's marathon training groups. Lots of folks start out in these various groups and train for a marathon. You meet lots of folks. And you get in good shape and train for and run a marathon. And if you don't find a girl there, you'll look good in other places where you might find one.

I used to look down on people who did Internet dating, but it's work for a few friends of mine, so it's worth a try. As the bonds people have with each other have diminished in America because of the way we live our lives now, Internet dating has surfaced to fill this nitch. Try it. Lots of other people have and lots of other people are lonely, too. Good luck.

Answer 4

visit the sea coast. Wait till sundown. walk in direction of the sea. in basic terms till now your ft get moist, turn around and look rapidly forward, then turn your head all a thank you to the suitable, finding all of the time, then all a thank you to the left, finding all of the time. I assume you will see females. you need to not be finding for a girl at your age. consistent with risk that's area of your project. Are you finding for the lady on the activities Illustrated bikini version or are you finding for a girl you may proportion your existence with?

Answer 5

Drive a car that you can't afford, act like a complete asshole, and tell everyone you are a director attached to several projects (even though you just came out from Ohio to be an "actor" but have never acted.)

Answer 6

Approximately 50% of the people are women. You shouldnt have any problem finding one.