2006-12-28 16:24:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can be two things:
(1.) You've used up her trust one too many times. Like lying where you've been or whom you're with. You can try apologizing for that and start telling the truth the next time she asks those questions.
(2.) It could also mean that she doesn't trust you at all! You can start by telling her how you feel and you would appreciate if she trusts in you a bit more to make your relationship work. If she doesn't listen, I think it's time to say bye bye! You're better off with someone else who trusts and respects you.
2006-12-28 16:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Either you have lied to her before and she doesn't trust you, or there maybe something that happened in the past, and she has a difficult time trusting anyone. If you have lied to her, there may be little to nothing you can ever do that will make her trust you again. If you know( or can find out) that something has happened in her past that has created this type of distrust, talk to her about it. Let her tell you what you can do to get her to trust you. If you can't repair this, the relationship is pretty well over, unless you're into sadomasochism.
2006-12-28 17:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_lassy70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you done something soo bad before that makes her like that? If not, talk to her, know what's the reason for being so distructful. If it still doesn't work out, you should better break up with her and find someone who would love and trust you. Trust is important in any relationship. Without it, I don't think any relationship would work out.
2006-12-28 16:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Empress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason why she doesn't believe you. It also depends what you tell her. Like if you cheated on her and tell her you wont do it again, of course shes not going to believe you. And don't listen to those people that tell you to dump her. If you are first talk to her to know whats going on. Well good luck.
2006-12-28 16:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try regaining her trust. apologize, send her flowers, the best way is simply talk to her. take her hands, look into her eyes n tell her the truth. if she does not believe u, then it is almost impossible for her to believe u unless ther was solid proof ryt in front of her eyes.
2006-12-28 16:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this depends on if you have been a compulsive liar. if that is so..then yes she has no reason to believe you. but if not, then i think that u should break up with her. because she is too controlling and is not good for you. im sure that it leads to fighting, which no couple needs.
2006-12-28 16:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Traci Alise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have lied to her alot before then of course shes really not goin to believe you and its gonna take her a while. but if you truley want her to trust u and u care about her then proove to her and do whatever it takes to make it happen. true love baby right there
2006-12-28 16:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show & prove. talk is cheap. but seriously, if you're being honest & she refuses to believe it all the time, it becomes tiresome. tell the chick, it's straining the relationship & if she wants to make it work, there has to be trust. then turn it around on her.
2006-12-28 16:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she believes ur a liar the for no reason it must be because shes lying to u about something...or its because u musta gave her a reason to not trust what u say
2006-12-28 16:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a valuable thing and if you loose it it is very hard to gain back if you even get it back at all. I hope you have learned from this.
2006-12-28 16:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋