I no this is a question only I can answer but it helps to have others imput. I love my man with all of my heart and then some and we've been through some very serious **** the time weve been together. He jus got out of boot camp and hes getting sent to Italy for a year. He asked me to marry him and go with him and hes already talking about kids.Im still young so theres still alot I want to do wit my life yet but Im scared that if I go out to find my place Ill end up screwin us up. How can I keep him without loseing me???
2006-12-28 16:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie....take your time you have your whole life ahead of you. If he truly loves you and wants to start a family then he will wait until you are ready.
2006-12-28 16:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by vixendreamz4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a military wife is a difficult thing to deal with. You basically have to go where the gov't sends the both of you. Maybe it's better to wait till he returns. If the love is there,it is worth the wait till you are sure it's the life you want for yourself.
2006-12-29 00:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if he just got out of boot camp he needs time to himself to work out what got him in boot camp in the first place. If it meant to be you will be with him that gives you time to know what you want to do. Never be in a rush with your future especially if you are bring children in a relationship you will only hurt them if you didn't do it right. What would you tell your Child.
2006-12-29 00:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Nmatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a very good guy and you dont have to worry about losing him. i think you should stay with him and just tell him that you are not ready 4 kids. I am sure he will understand.
2006-12-29 00:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home.
A year is NOTHING
if he were to get deployed it would be longer than that that you would be apart.
Be true to yourself, He will respect you for that and more importantly, you will respect yourself
2006-12-29 00:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM THAT YOU WANT TO GO BUT ONE YEAR IS NOT THAT LONG BEING IN LOVE DOES STOP IN ONE YEAR. YOU NEED TO FIND YOURSELF IF YOUR NOT HAPPY YOU CAN MAKE ANYONE ELSE HAPPY.
2006-12-29 00:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lewie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him tht u want to experience life n might think bout it later...tell him wht u really feel..
2006-12-29 00:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by i*love*u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great song, one of el clash's best
2006-12-29 00:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it first.
& think of what happens if you dont.
and if you do go.
2006-12-29 00:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by suppbech_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋