I HAVE BEEN LIKING THIS BOY FOR A LONG TIME AND MY FRIEND IS NOW GOING OUT WITH HIM HIS FRIENDS TOLD ME HE LIKES ME AND IS JUST USING HER TO MAKE ME JEALOUS I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO DO I TELL HER OR JUST KEEP LIVING MY LIFE?
2006-12-28 15:40:20 · 15 answers · asked by sexy l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes using her to make you jealous? So when hes using you who is he going to be making jealous? move on.
2006-12-28 15:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by xeraphile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep living your life. You have no idea how other people, {ie: his friends, etc..} will lie and make up stories to mess with relationships! His "friends" may feel she's taking his time away from them, and want to try to break them up. It could be anything. Boys are everywhere, find your own. If you go for this one, you'll #1, destroy your friendship with her, #2, make an insensitiveb backstabber out of yourself, and#3, if you "won" him, you'd be getting a boy with no morals, self respect or integrity! Imagine, using a girl to get the attention of another, or dumping a girl and going out with her friend!! Yuck! You should NEVER want a guy like that! Do the right thing, for your own sake. It's impossible to live down being an a$$hole!
2006-12-28 15:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems like you may have lost your opportunity. If this young lady is truly your friend why would you want to do something so painful to her. This will ruin your relationship with her. This also goes toward this young man's integrity. If he's dating your friend just to make you jealous then he doesn't value the feelings of others very much. He is also cheating on her if he told his friend to tell you he was doing it just to make you jealous. This goes to his character. If he will do it to your friend, what makes you think he won't do it to you?
2006-12-28 15:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me I would ask my friend if she really like this guy and if she says yes then I would keep living your life but if she don't then tell her how you feel and not worry about what his friend says about being jealous. It would hurt her more knowing that he use her then her friend like him.
2006-12-28 15:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kyra G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on with your life. if you tell your friend, she might think that you are just jealous and are trying to steal the guy from her. then you will get into a fight with her. which is not good. if he really likes you, he will stop dating your friend and ask you instead. don't initiate anything like sending signals to the guy that you like him. let him be a man and have the initiative.
2006-12-28 15:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might want to ask yourself why you like this person so much? Also if he is dating you girlfriend what kind of guy hurt s one girl to get to other. You sound very young so some advice would be to express your feeling to your girl friend before somthing happens between you and this dude. Good luck
2006-12-28 15:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by ashloveus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her. She might actually really like him and will get hurt later on. And have him talk to her too. And if they break up don't go out with him right away, ask her and see how she feels.
2006-12-28 15:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your friendship, don't tell her. You can drop hints to make her think about the relationship, but if you tell her, chances are she will not believe you and you will lose your friend. She needs to find out for herself, and while you can guide her toward this realization, you do not need to come out and tell her.
2006-12-28 15:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by blue_seahorse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. i was in a similar position and you kinda have to play it by ear. i mean if you tell her she might get bothered that you like him but if you don't you have to live with the fact that you guys might be going out. maybe you should talk to her first and then talk to him get both sides and see where life take you.
2006-12-28 15:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him then when he breaks it off with your friend wait a couple of days then go out with him
2006-12-28 15:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by ChiKeTa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋