i like him..i really like him. we've had the ackward kiss,and the ackward moments. should i persue it or just look at it as...an "Accident" we spend ALOT of time together,movies, dinner..etc. Should i think more into it,or just consider it friend stuff??
2006-12-28 15:34:13 · 25 answers · asked by runnin_4_u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you interested in him romantically? Regardless, if he's really your friend he'd be receptive to you if you wanted to talk to him about it.
2006-12-28 15:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you looking for a husband? if so, than you dont decide on husband material based solely on "feelings". most marriages end in divorce and "all" of them started with good "feelings". you should have some standards set for what you want in a husband. Does he have goals and ambition, or does he live moment to moment letting the chips fall where they may? Does he care about his character? Does he work on his faults and shortcommings? Can he admit when he is wrong or does he blame others for his faults? Does he put more value in money and looks instead of character and virtue? Love is not the reason to get married and love will not keep you out of divorce court. I recommend a book called "Boundaries in dating" and "How to avoid Mr. wrong." These books are by Dr. Henry Cloud and /or Dr. John Townsend. Most christian bookstores carry these. you can also got to their website and order them there. www.newlife.com
2006-12-28 15:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him than go for it. What stoping you? you kiss him, he kiss you back!!! so obviously, you both like each other. OHH, I think I know what the reason is, you scared of ruined a good friendship right? If that is the case, then befored committing a relationship you guys have to promise each other that if things don't work out you guys will still be friend. That way you will know if this guy is the one for you, and if not, you still have a good friend by your side.
2006-12-28 15:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by thainguyen480 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, if you're feeling like there's something more than just a friendship, there's probably something there and the only way to know for sure if you guys would make a great pair is to try.
Most people that are best friends, try to date and it doesn't work out can remain just best friends. Trust me....I know.
2006-12-28 15:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Unfortunately for me I was in love with my best friend and I never told him and he was killed in a car accident by a drunk driver last year so I am left with feelings of, "I wish." Tell him how you feel and discuss the positive and negative of being in a relationship, just remember sometimes if you do get in a relationship and it doesn't work out, it is sometimes hard to go back to "just being friends." Good Luck
2006-12-28 15:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both really like each other. Stop playing it safe girl and just step up and ask him if he likes you for more than a friend. I'm not saying go have sex with him. Just dating. You guys already sound like you enjoy each others company a lot. What have you got to lose? If you don't pursue it you will always wonder if it could have worked.
2006-12-28 15:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Male best friends make perfect boyfriends when there is chemistry and feelings. If not you could ruin a perfect friendship. When you are around him you should know if it feels like lust or a long term commitment. If you don't know. Talk about it with him. I'm sure he may be thinking the same thing.
2006-12-28 15:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by PINK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ek i hate this situation... ive been in it... and the last thing u want to do is ruin the friendship so my suggestion is that u ask him how he feels and tell him how u feel and if u feel the same then give it a shot but if not then say that being friends is totally ok with u and stay friends even if its weird the weirdness will pass in time =) Good luck
2006-12-28 15:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends make even better boyfriends. Move on to the realationship country. Sounds like with your kiss etc. you've already thought about it. It's a new year...new realationship. Go for it!
2006-12-28 15:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can date your best friend then go for it, and count yourself as lucky. Lasting relationships are based on communication, commonalities, and all the other stuff that you have with a best friend. The person you end up with is supposed to be your best friend.
2006-12-28 15:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by Xxar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT! totally ive been in that situation with a best friend of about a year and we've been going out for almost 6 months, its so perfect to date your best friend, becuase, well hes ur best friend. best wishes and go for it, but if it doestn work out dont blame me :)
2006-12-28 15:37:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋