please help! sick of her lies!?

Question

I got into a fight with my mom yesterday. she wouldn't let me take the car and then she said i wish you get ( something like blood clots in your brain) and die. At night, when my dad was home, and i said this, my mom wouldn't admit it. She kept saying that she has never said anything like this in her entire life. She was just playing a game in front of my dad. She kept swearing to god, to her mother and everyone else that I"M LYING!!!!!!!! i felt so terrible that i couldn;t prove it,We got into a huge fight. My mother is always lying, whenever she says something bad, she refuses to admit it later on. Then she tells my dad that I'M HAVING HALUUCINATIONS!!!!!!!!and that i'm sick....I'm so scared!!!! and sick of her lying in front of people all the time. my dad kept saying i know your mom wouldn;t say this, it's not even her words!!!! at end my mom tried to turn me against my dad....please help! i can;t take it any more. I haven;t been eating for 2 days and i'm sick of my mom lying!!!!!!!

please i need more feedback. She also wished that i wouldn;t get into any of the universities that i've applied to!

P.S: I'm scared that i'll get into an accident or die because my dad said that once my mom was saying how this plant never falls off all these years, and then wind came and it fell down 4 stories!!!! I don;t know if it's true....but i'm really scared that something's gonna happend to me soon...please help!

Answer 1

I SOOOOOO FEEL your pain. Im older though and i let my mom come live wit me a while ago since she moved in she has started her ****. She will accuse me of **** all the time and lie. lol Like over stupid ****. She dont listen when i talk to her so later when she gets mad over something ill tell her i told you bout that. She will say no ya didnt . when i have told her more than once. Or she will lie and say somethigns hers when its clearly not. Example she parked on the wrong side of the street two nights in a row but for some reason but she said i did it.????????? what the **** i didnt even drive her car so now im shellin out money for a parkin ticket. Another time she accused me of having someone in the hosue that stole money from her. later she found out my lil brother hid it in a bread box. I gave up with arguing wit her unless she does something really stupid. LIke most recently i realized she took my toothbrush and started using it. If i tell her its mine she will just scream im lyin so i said nothin and just went and got a new one. Thats what she gets she can use my second hand tooth brush .lol. Heres some advice ya mom is self centered and always has to be the victum. I call it the barron county syndrome. Thats my home county and everyone acts like that there. YOu will never win on this one best thing just move out as soon as you can and give up on the fact that she will do this your whole life. NO matter what you do for her or dont she will act like this. YOU DONT DESERVE nor do i but we have mothers for some reason who have to act like nothin they do is wrong i say **** THEM and dont give it a second thought. dont suffer cause shes a b*tch. best of luck keep ur head up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

Answer 2

Sounds Grim.

If you are old enough to borrow the car, I am guessing you might soon be old enough to try and "go your own way" and live away from the,

In the meantime, although it might well force a complete showdown, you could of course get a dictaphone / concealed tape recorder and then ask her 1-2-1 why she says these things to you and then denies it - tape it and play the answers back to anyone who disbeleives you.

If you didn't want to cause too much hassle, you could just play it to your day in private - so your mum didn't know she had been caught out lying - but your dad would then know the score.

As I say, you might then have the consequences to deal with - but it might at least get your point over.

Answer 3

First, i would tell you to eat cos it will do you no good not to eat. Secondly, since you have known that she lies why dont you try to ignore what she says i mean when she says it, tell yourself nothing like that will happen to you( in this case, you will not get blood clots hence no dying) then stop telling your dad about it since he believes your mum more than you, its not easy but once you get in the habit, your mum will see a change every time she tells you such stuff, so it will sting her if she doesnt get any response from you, just do it and in time you will feel better, right now you are your own weapon so use it wisely before you become your worst enemy.

Answer 4

YOu need a recording device possible a video camera is best. So you can say what every you want really because she going ot lie about it anyway
Is your friends around when she is lying?
You will not win with proof so your mission is to get proof LOL
Good Luck

Answer 5

wow how awful for you try taping the conversation the let dad Liston to it good luck.i fill sorry for you,[[[[,hey i read the rest of your story and now that all i believe it is a story or a cry for help,either way something does not sound right.it is beginning to sound to me like you may be sick.i hope you get help that you need for you or mom]]]]

Answer 6

stay out of ur moms way and one day when she is gone, ask ur dad if u can talk to him about it and try to explain to him -- let him listen and even if he doesn't believe u right off the bat, he will probably stay peeled as to ur moms behavior, and that will surely enough make it alot easier for him to catch on that u rn't lying
good luck
xao:)

Answer 7

the next time u have a discussion with her, hide a taperecorder very close to u and when you start a discussion, record the discussion and when your dad comes home, show him the recording and your momma will get in big troubles.

Answer 8

so get yourself a pocket tape recorder and tape her. the pnly wake to make your dad believe you is to let him hear it for yourself - dont edit the tape just let him hear it all - trust me it works