My mother gets mad when I draw on myself, she won't let me date unline I'm 16, and she's said I'm more mature than most people my age when it comes to this stuff. My sister acts like a 5 yr old and my dad is rarely around ( so he doesn't bother me). My piont is i know alot of people who's parents say this and then break. How can I do this.
2006-12-28 14:53:52 · 14 answers · asked by Lena 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Llfe is too short enjoy them while you can.
Chris
2006-12-28 14:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by christine h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.. I am a Mother so I am not sure you would really like what I have to say on this matter.
Drawing on yourself is a form of changing who you are. All mothers would like to see their child as they were at birth, pure and clean.
OK.. I know that your mother said no dating till you are 16 I am not sure what age you are at this time. I do know that you may ask her if she would take you and your friend somewhere. Roller skating, movies, restaurant, bowling, and etc... be sure that she is included or another parent. This will help her to relax and realize that you may or may not be ready for the dating world. Be polite and respectful at all times. Do your chores with out being told to do them. Show that you are mature at all time regardless what they say and your actions may make the difference. I am not sure about breaking the parents but having them rethink what they have stated depend on your actions and how you handle all the situations.
Good luck.
2006-12-28 23:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear girl... your parents usually want the best for you... Your mom says that you can't date until you are 16, which seems reasonable to me. You are way too young to have a serious bf. If you can't stand being at home, get professional help (we all have problems, going with a psychologist does not mean you are insane) and let the world be, don't try to make things better when they just don't work anymore.
2006-12-28 22:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by gerardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first relax look at things that make u happy like learning to be a better person exsersise in your room read dance listen to music ask for help in prayer. and remember not to sweat the small stuff. Your problems aresmall compared to most . give you mom a hug she loves u and ur dad is working hard so u can have food and shelter he also loves u ur brother is also probably bored go play with him. and smile !!
2006-12-28 23:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom and tell her how you feel and see if she will let have a boy come over and watch TV with you or study in the living room. Ask her to trust you to have a little more freedom. Take baby steps with parents give them time to adjust to the fact that you are growing up.
2006-12-28 22:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deal with it until you are 18 & can go out on your own. They are your parents & they do what they do because they love you. I had the same problems as you when I was living with my parents & I barely got along with them. But now that I am out on my own, I have a better relationship with my parents & I see why they did some the of things they did. They may seem annoying now, that they are trying to ruin your life....but believe me......you will thank them one of these days. Just deal with it & love them.
2006-12-28 22:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by braves_chica08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might not see it now butyour mom sounds like a good one. She doesnt want you going out yet because alot of guys cant be trusted. Parents will always get on your nerves one way or another. She might seem harsh but she is only thinking of you. When you have your own children you will see it I promise.
2006-12-28 22:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm...i duno..my mom said that i shouldnt hav ea bf until im 26!!LOL so u should feel lucky girl!!i have litto problems with my family too..hmmm..i know soem parent say and they break,but u shoudl let them in on ur problems..i dunowhy ur momgets so mad when u draw on urself...mayeb she dosetn want anything to happen to ur skin cuz somethings can be poisonus!so she cares about u.
2006-12-28 22:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by angel miaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time and respect your mom, you will be an adult soon enough. But cool and enjoy your youth, dont be in such a big rush to grow up.........Then you will have bills, rent, car note, food bill, eletric bills, phone bills, shall I go on.
2006-12-28 22:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by slumchump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to slow down a little and smell the roses life will soon give you way more than what you will ever need.....
2006-12-28 22:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom is like my parents don't even try to break them. I tried and it only got me grounded.
2006-12-28 22:57:48 · answer #11 · answered by Doodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋