Is this why?? Do I break-up with him??(see add'l details for more info)
2006-12-28 14:46:38 · 16 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am falling for my b/f's friend. We have even gone out on a few dates and gone further than first base. My b/f doesn't think anything would ever go on between his friend and me. Is it because he trusts me or his friend?? I want to tell him but the next time I see him is new years eve. Should I tell him then??
2006-12-28 14:47:02 · update #1
Is it mean to break up on new years eve??
Should I wait until he finds out on his own??
2006-12-28 14:49:14 · update #2
no, wait til' January 2
2006-12-28 14:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont wait until he finds out own his own just break up with him now...I would do it before new years eve, but if you have no way to then I would hold out until after new year's..That is just mean and selfish, think of how his night will go and the thoughts that he will have..he will probably be thinking that his whole year is going to be messed up b/c of what happened...
But do it now..How ever you can...Give him a chance to spend the new year with someone that really wants to spend it with him. But you need to think of what his friend did.. the fact that he did that to his friend only means one thing..he is not his friend!! So before you go trusting and thinking he is a great guy remember that he is not very trust worthy to begin with..If he had respect for you and his friend he wouldn't have done anything with you, if he has strong feelings for you and can not hide them he should have went to his friend and told him his self. Its called being a man..So I really don't think you should be with neither one...
2006-12-28 22:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait till Jan 2. then tell your BF your cheating on him. then take a few weeks out of respect for your old BF and then find someone else. Your BF's friend has no loyalty. trust me he won't be loyal to you either. Or you can get your heart broken and ask why you did it. I hope you choose the first answer. Remember cheating is wrong and being alone should be your punishment
2006-12-28 22:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Armond B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He trusts you, and tell him before new year's day cause otherwise you will start the year crying in a corner sitting next to the cocktail bowl...
2006-12-28 22:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by *Bianka* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u need to leave them both alone u want to wreck a friendship for something ur not sure of plus u knos hows it goes bros before ***s
2006-12-28 22:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by marion r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez........and you women like to call men a bunch of cheaters!!!! Your BF trusts you and ur dating his best friend behind his back.
2006-12-28 22:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm thats a hard 1
2006-12-28 22:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sexcaii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell him about this i can tell you you will loose on all counts, get ready for a fight between them, take the boxing gloves with you
2006-12-28 22:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya the truth needs to come out and it may hurt but you should be honest to yourself and go with you true love
2006-12-28 22:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by TIMER 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why the h*** do you keep asking this question whan you are already f****** your b/f's friend....Give it up and break it off with your b/f
2006-12-28 22:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋