Ok, this girl i met at this work party, we talked and all, she got my myspace, added me, we talked etc, ect. So when i talked to her on aim, i asked if i could call her, she gave me her# and she asked for mine,so i gave it. A week later, i tried calling her, left a message and yet to hear from here. But she did IM me on aim, saying blah blah, wasnt sure it was too late to call u back, (i call that bullshit) She dosent im or call me. I dont u nderstand at all!! I dont act desperate, she admits shes shy, but y cant she make a move?? Whats a good idea in the future next time i get a #?
2006-12-28 14:43:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a theory.
Any brain that gets within 3 feet of a vagina stops working correctly. The better the vagina- the more powerful the effect. Try it. Bring your head closer and closer to a vagina and see what happens. You can't think straight. Since a girls brain is always within 3 feet it has suffered permanent damage. Notice how after being in the uterus for nine months and then passing through the birth canal it takes most people two or three years before they can walk straight and put a decent sentence together! Also check your dad out. He's been getting his head pretty close to mom's vagina for years and if he's like most dads he's pretty mental by now.
Lesbians get a double whammy.
That's my theory anyway. Nobody's proven me wrong so far.
2006-12-28 14:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by something'srotten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all girls are difficult; just this one that u happen to meet happens 2 be undecicive..so u ignore her too and just go on with ur life. You did everything right by calling her (don't blow her phone up though) leave a message and if she doesnt call bak or acts lik that girl then theyr not worth ur precious time cuz either theyr plyin hard 2 get or theyr jus simply not interested nemore.
2006-12-28 14:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to find out if you are actually interested in her. Old ploy - let him call you several times and try to fob him off - if he is interested then he will continue calling. Pity most females work out they missed out on a good thing when the phone stops ringing for them, or when you hook up with someone else.
Give it another shot and then move on, if she asks about it say that she didn't seem interested as she displayed no response and that you need two way communication in a relationship. you need feed back on what you are doing.
2006-12-28 14:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust me on this. Any relationship that starts off on a rocky start, seems to not be worth the effort. At 36, I've had hundreds (yes hundreds) of Girlfriends/dates/etc. I married the best one. We started off with a good conversation, and clicked instantly. We are ourselves, and love eachother for being ourselves. No drama.
The best relationships are the ones that happen easily, no chasing, no game playing.
Trust me, you're time will come.
2006-12-28 14:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just really nice and was trying not to hurt your feelings.
or
She could like you and she is just so shy she is not sure what to say on the phone.
Try calling her again, and if no answer or return call, I say she is un-interested.
Good luck to you and most girls wouldn't act this way, if she likes you, she would call you back or answer her phone.
If a girl didn't like you, most of them will not give them your number, they will say no thank you or say they are taken.
Good luck and God bless! :)
2006-12-28 14:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur almost like my ex boyfriend!i got realli pissed at him.just call the girl.im like ur gf.i dotn want to go for the first move.we wait and we want u to phoen S insead because we're SHY!deal with it.if u liek her why not just make the first move since shes so shy?does it realli matter if u make the first move?u both know u liek each other so just go for it.u can do it if u jut believe in ur self!!..weird that i jsut said that...
2006-12-28 14:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by angel miaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave this guy my number and I thought he was so cool. Then I met another one shortly and he was really "cool" so I wanted the one to just get the hint. This happens all the time there is no way to prevent it.
2006-12-28 14:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call sooner...maybe a week is too long + if you call and it goes into voice mail don't leave a message. If you do it'll be weird if you call again whereas if you just end the call and call later it wont
2006-12-28 14:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by James Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just more comfortable with you over im, or doesn't like talking on the phone...cause usually shy girls prefer im or myspace over the phone. My advice is just talk to her on im/myspace and go on dates in person. When she feels comfortable, she'll want to talk on the phone
2006-12-28 14:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, cant live with them and cant live with out them,your answer is as good as mine, women are very hard to figure out. I wish i could help you on this one but i have the same problem you do. And that is cant figure them out. The only thing i can say is, TELL THEM WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR.
2006-12-28 14:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by oh here we go 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋