I'm a strong believer of the fact that there are "perfect" guys out there, because i've met one. however, things wouldn't work out between us because of age differences and stuff..but i'm afriad i'll never meet someone like him again. I've got a lot going for me..i'm thin, have blonde hair and blue eyes...but i don't go out w/ guys now cuz no one i know is anywhere close to the guy i knew. Does anyone have advice or does anyone just want to chat about it?
2006-12-28 14:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by sandcastlesinair 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
99% of finding the right guy is avoiding the wrong one.
You also need to hang out where the right guys are.
For example: Club=no Library=yes
You need to forget about this "perfect" guy because you have idealized him in your mind and no real guy can ever live up to him.
Just keep your eyes open and your heart ready.
Good luck to you. You sound like you've got a lot going for you and a good head on your shoulders. I wish you all the best!
2006-12-28 14:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone you think is perfect may not be perfect to the next woman. And you being thin, with blonde hair and blue eyes says nothing about what you have going for yourself. Do you have a good education, do you have a job, do you have your own place, do you make your own decisions, are you a leaer or a follower? Those are things that you could have going for yourself, and finding mr. perfect wont happen, he'll find you!
2006-12-28 22:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, please tell me you have more going for yourself other than thin, blonde hair, and blue eyes. A guy can find that any old day of the week. Plus that's so 1985 of you. Second, you don't have to do jack to find your true love. Just keep on working on yourself, and make sure you know who you really are (which should be more than just your physical appearance, hint hint). Have fun in the process. He will find you. Just make sure you are not so busy comparing him to some so-called ideal of perfection that you can't recognize him when you see him.
2006-12-28 23:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not compare any other guy to the other guy you are talking about..No body will ever come close for the simple fact that they are not him..So you need to stop doing that..
Now, I have to say that their is no perfect guy out there Hun! It's impossible we are all human and no human is perfect... You can find a guy that is pretty damn close though..And when you share a strong chemistry together you will know...You will not have to ask yourself you will just know...
But please remember if you are expecting to find someone perfect it will not happen they only seem perfect in the beginning until you both get used to each other and realize that you both are only human..
2006-12-28 22:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of all the qualities you want in a future husband/boyfriend/whatever. Stick to those requirements and never settle. You should never have to settle for a secure relationship and sacrifice what you truly want. You'll regret it later.
Also, involve yourself in more clubs and activities (political campaigns, volunteer hospital/animal shelter work). Basically get out there, do what you love, and you'll find friends and future mates there you love the same things you do!
2006-12-28 22:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by jiggly_puff_59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i would start with fixing you.
if you say that you have a lot going for you and you only cite your phyical attributes that can be part of the problem.
dont get caught up in the superficial.
people get old. people get fat. people lose hair. pedestals are tricky things to put people on, especially if you have them balanced on a heaping pile of nothing. you dont want to wake up next to someone who used to be attractive and that's what you built a relationship on and find you have nothing in common.
gotta start with being confident in you- all of you. and then giving some guys a chance- who knows, they may blow the former "mr perfect" out of the water.
good luck.
2006-12-28 23:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by The MD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up. You have chosen the noble path to true happiness. One day you will meet a perfect guy and it will all be worth the wait. I would recommend eHarmony.com, but I'm not saying that is the only good site or method.
2006-12-28 22:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by waltzorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and im so picky ...i have never had any gf cuz im looking for a perfect one(im 18) and i hope il find one soon !
just go out and spent times with guys to find out more about them...you sound beautiful and nice !!! dont worry !
good luck !
2006-12-28 22:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont look 4 him he will find you. you shouldn't think about him too much. the reason you dont want to date other guys is becuase they aren't him. ots not that they couldn't be perfect you should give other people a shot!!
2006-12-28 22:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u show that u r a nice girls 100% the right guy will come for u soon
2006-12-28 22:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by cat c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋