I begged my ex back for about 2 months and all i got was that i was annoying her and that i need to give it up so i fianlly gave up 3 weeks later she keep calling me and calling me i answered once she said she wants to meet up with me what is she thinking and why all of a sudden she calling me i thought she wanted me to go away??
2006-12-28 14:34:55 · 21 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's confused and just misses the attention. Old Spanish saying--la costumbre es mas fuelte que el amor. Translation--being accustomed to someone is stronger than love. People often confuse being accustomed to someone with love. Why would someone push the person that they love away?? Sounds to me like she just misses the attention you gave her.
2006-12-28 14:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People never know what they want until it's gone. Ask anyone who's been in a relationship and done the dumping. You miss the familiarity and security and all that yada yada. She probably thinks she made a mistake breaking up with you.
In my opinion, it's probably just her feeling lonely. And if you don't want to look pathetic, don't take her back. There was a reason you two didn't work out and a reason you are NOT together. Plus, she had her chance. Take time to grow from this, not just fall back into the same patterns of behavior.
2006-12-28 14:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by jiggly_puff_59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your ex is the only one that can answer that question. So why don't you just ask her what she is thinking and why all of a sudden she is calling you, because you thought she wanted you to go away? Good luck to you.
2006-12-28 14:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by miracle_happen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, you desire to be extra particular whilst asking questions! you ought to have for eg. stated how long you adult adult males have been seperated for etc. besides, instead of going loopy thinking of why, if, etc, take it gradual! reassess your thoughts for this guy, bear in mind why you broke up with him interior the 1st place, see no count if it could bypass everywhere this time! Do all this in spite of the undeniable fact that, when you comprehend what he needs this time around! in an attempt to characteristic to this, you will are the two in distinctive cities! So ask your self whether you adult adult males come back at the same time will one in each and every of you will circulate to be at the same time or what? long-distance relationships are plenty harder to maintain, noticeably on the instant as quickly as we are all serious relating to the here and now! think of, yet look after a cordial relationship, you on no account comprehend!
2016-11-24 21:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont miss the well til it runs dry
She probably got dumped by the guy she left you for
Tell her to go screw herself
that you dont like your heart raked over the coals
move on
sounds like a bytch
you two broke up for a reason
remind her of it when she calls you back or you will be going thru the same thing in six months
2006-12-28 14:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She called because she thinks it's a game. You gave up the chase and now she wants to pursue. Do you really want someone who treats love like it's a game?
2006-12-28 14:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by dedakated1236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.i see...i think she wanted to see u try and get her back.but since u gave up no shes ralli worried that ur realli gonna give up on getting her back.maybe thats why shes phoneing u and wanted to meet with u now??maybe u were a litto bit annoying but STILL its probably what i said she was kindda testing u if u realli wanted her back or not!!^^ good luck !!
2006-12-28 14:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by angel miaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought about the fact that she knows she blew it with you and now you did exactly as she asked now she is wanting to meet, take a fools advice run like the devil was chasing you, you are better than that,she will do it again, as soon as things don't go her way
2006-12-28 14:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from a different standpoint, you never gave her time to get over her anger and kept pushing it. i did the same thing. once you give them the time to get over things, they may start to realize what they lost (hopefully), and then come around to try and work things out. its not always the case with everyone, but that's what it sounds like to me.
2006-12-28 14:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by noxregrets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicks have egos too... We love to be chased after and when a guy sudden stops kissing our *** we'll pursue him until he comes back... then it's "you're annoying me..." all over again... lovely cycle this boy/girl thing is
2006-12-28 14:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by I wanna have a midget :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋