There was a girl that I had a serious thing for and she would always opt to go with a loser. She said once that I was too nice - wow, I always thought that was a good thing. Maybe I should get a tatoo...
2006-12-28 14:28:50 · 33 answers · asked by whitney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a good guy is a good thing. Don't change. Men also go for bad women too. I think sometimes it just seems more exciting. I'd try to move on. Maybe after she's been hit hard a few times, she'll wake up and come back to you. If not, it's not your loss. Anyone who doesn't appreciate you isn't worth it.
2006-12-28 14:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad guys have a great deal of mystery, they are a challenge. The appear confident and are a lot of fun. Bad boys excite girls. They can also be rude and arrogant. (Not ideal) You just need to adopt some of their qualities:confidence/fun/humor ( I am considered good/nice always have been and sometimes it's a bore: 100% nice is boring so I will do something a bad girl will do never to their undesirable extremes but I'll do or say something a little unpredictable for mystery.) People are attractive to mystery!
2006-12-28 14:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey no sweat, God has a plan for you. ok when the time comes the right girl will come. i know sometimes us girls are stupid and just fall for the jerks. i have a friend that is really dumb she just goes for whatever she can get her last boyfriend was only with her so he could have a girlfriend untill he found a different one, and he didnt he break up with her face to face, he had another guy tell her. thats pethetic.
Hey dont get a tatoo i think thats gross
and you sound like a good guy.
2006-12-28 14:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by my # is 1-800-you-wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No tatoos just be you. Sometimes it is just the excitement, which doesn't last. You'll find someone who will respect you for who you are and be happy. This girl may look back later and say wow I blew that one. I know always went for the bad boys. Big mistake.
2006-12-28 14:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because these girls have low self esteem and there is something inside of them that says they don't deserve to be treated any better or fear of commitment (bad boys don't want commitment). When they get older, and their self esteem gets stronger, they will be more attracted to the "nice guys" and less attracted to the "bad boys". I know- I had a bad boy for five years in my life that treated me like crap and when I finally felt good about myself, he, despite his good looks, appeared to me to be a complete loser and it became easy to break up with him. It's all about what's inside. Go for the ladies that are confident and you'll find they aren't looking for the bad boys. By the way, not only bad boys have tattoos... my nice guy has one and we've been married 10 years. :)
2006-12-28 14:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question and I have read the read reponses. But the thing is the bad ones cause these women or men to have bad relationships and when the good guysor girls come along they don't know what they have and either date "the Good" and dump us or just keep walking by. Its only when enough bad relationships have occured in thier lives that they will wake up , and this applies to all sex's
2006-12-28 14:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
young girls like excitement and thrills. Just wait for a few years, then they'll want the nice, steady type. Usually. Some girls just have bad taste in guys. Also, he dangerous ones tend to look more "cool" and put themselves out there better. And often they seem very sure of themselves, which is extemely attractive to a young and confused girl.
2006-12-28 14:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by purrr:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what a girl says, she will almost always pick the loser over the nice guy, because she is a girl and not grown up yet, eventually when they grow up and have been through hell with all the losers thats when they finally realize that they want a nice guy
2006-12-28 14:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lucy Maude Montgomery's character, Anne, in Anne of Green Gables, said (100 years ago) "of course, I wouldn't want to marry anyone who was really bad... but I'd like to think that he could be bad, and wouldn't."
That's a mature woman. The immature ones date some bad ones before they grow up.
Be interesting and flirt, and not 100% available to anyone except yourself. That should help for a start. When you find someone you really like, make sure she deserves you, then you need to catch each other. Don't be too easy to catch, same as you'd probably be bored with someone who simply followed you around.
2006-12-28 14:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats simple....girls r too damn dumb to know what all we want. everybody knows that girls can never make up their minds about anything. girls can take the smallest problem and turn it into something as bad as the world comin to an end. so all u can pretty much do is turn into a bad boy or deal wit the fact that girls dont get outta the bad boy phase until we get 18 or older....
2006-12-28 14:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by smalls8802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋