she may or may not know but i dont know! regardless i want to ask her out by feb. (new years resolution-ish but after finals so we have time to hangout and date etc.) what do i do? and hints for the 1st date would be welcomed too! please all my friends (male and female) are like dude, you REALLY like her and i dont know what to do your on your own because ive never felt this way, and i dont wanna ask for help outside of my close circle in fear of her finding out which may have happened (thanks joe) but probably not. PLEASE HELP ME!
2006-12-28 14:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while you wait for the right time to ask her, get to know some of the things she likes to do and do them. If she likes going to the movies, take her there. If she likes concerts, get the tickets ready. Once you have an idea of where to go just pull her aside at one point and ask.
2006-12-28 14:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by meepiscool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one step at a time and talk to her and ask if you can go on a date not a date date but a date that involves having fun and getting to know each other...with friends is good let her no that you are kool around her not nervou...if she invites you somewhere like movie so just go go with her and she ould say soemthing like wow he is a nice guy and will start to like you...but dont get too too too attached...it does not help...do like 5 dates 3 with friends and 2 by ya selfs and after the last date ask her if you can contineu this but with a better realtionship or you can do this ...i recommend this...after the last date...walk her to her door/slash car...before she goes in tell her that you enjoyed her company thorugh all the times and would like to make yalls frenship to grow to another level and hope that the next time that yall catch a movie or go out for dinner or sumthing that yall could be more better then friend probably a couple...change the words up a bit but that should work..well if u need anymore help im me and i will help
2006-12-28 14:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, I know exactly what you are talking about. Me and my girl used to be like that I realy liked her but couldnt really ask her out. I asked my friends EVERYTHING about her. Finally I just got it over with and asked her she said yes and now we've been dating for a year. Hope it works out for you GOOD LUCK
2006-12-28 14:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Your best friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out. The way you talk you must really like her. I don't like it when guys like me and don't ask me on a date. I don't like to wait forever. First date ideas are putt putt, bowling, renting a movie, going to a movie, food at a local restaraunt. Go for it! Good luck too!!!
2006-12-28 14:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by be_urself 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out! omg! your overthinking this way too much! orgainse a group get-together with mutual friends so u can hang out and get used to her adn then have an ACTUAL date, it wont be awkward between adn she'll be more likely to say yes.
2006-12-28 14:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by flying_tigers999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 07:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out follow your heart and for your first date maybe dinner and a movie just make sure not to go to fast
2006-12-28 14:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by °The Earth Goddess° 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becool and ask her dont even trip about it im a freshmen too and b i t c hes are all on my tip
2006-12-28 14:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by kingrome_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U NEED 2 LET HER KNOW NOW B4 SHE FINDS SUM1 ELSE SO DAT SHE KNOWS HOW U FEEL N MAYB SHE CAN TAKE IT INTO CONSIDERATION.U FEEL ME?ITS BETTER THAT U TELL HER THAN SHE FINDS OUT FROM SUM1 ELSE.
2006-12-28 14:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her....if shes no then move on.
2006-12-28 14:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by James Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋