Girl problems...?

Question

There is this girl and i really like her but she considers me a good friend. Do I tell her I like her and or do I just keep my mouth shut and stay friends with her?

Answer 1

Tell her how you feel, if she doesnt feel the same way then still be good friends with her. she values your friendship im sure and she would be understanding and maybe one day she'll even feel about you the way you feel about her!

Answer 2

That is a tough one. I've been there before. Tell her the truth, but be sure to add that you won't be mad or upset if she doesn't have the same feelings for you. Tell her it's something you had to get off your chest and will feel better knowing how she feels. That way, you can move on and stay friends if she isn't and if she is interested, then cool, you can move onto something more romantic with her.

Answer 3

The simple and most efficient way is to encourage her to ask You out! When you are asking someone out, you are exposing yourself, potentially making things weird. However if you have a fun lifestyle, or at least she knows or hears that you are always doing something interesting and exciting, then she would want to be a part of it.

Do not try to chase that girl, because people want what they can’t have, so rather then giving her the satisfaction of knowing that she has you, present her with a challenge of winning you over. If you have other girls, great, invite them to fun activities, and then either tell that girl directly how much fun you had with these girls or better yet, make sure that these girls tell your friend of how much fun you are to be with.

Once you she wants to be a part of your life, you can slowly start to build things up physically. Don’t just rush it from not knowing her to trying to jump in to her panties, rather build it up slow, make sure she is comfortable sitting close next to you, then comfortable holding hands together, then maybe stop any physical contact and push away for about 5 minutes or so, then lean in and kiss her hand, then move away again. Slowly build it up to kissing her. If you are on a date, the kiss should be a build up to all these physicals touches and not touching, she should be comfortable being held in your arms and feel lonely when you let her go, to tease her a little bit.

Here is a little simple formula. First she needs to have a logical reasons as to why she wants to hang out with you, these could be that you have heaps of cool friends, that you always doing something interesting and exciting. Then she needs an emotional reason, which could be a challenge of winning you over, thrill of a chase, (girls like the challenge just as much as the guys do), things that you and her have in common or connecting on emotional level together is also very important. Lastly physical connection, this is a funny one. Make sure that with the physical connection you start as early as possible. Touching her shoulder then not going anywhere near her for 5 mins or so, then holding hands for 5-10 mins then once again, keeping two feet of distance between eachother. That would present her with a challenge, she would be asking herself, as to why you were holding her and now you just let her go, she would be more uncomfortable not holding hands together then not being next to you at all.

Once you completed all of these three factors of the formula, you are in!

Good luck, email me if you have any specific questions.

Answer 4

don't say anything!!! If you do either 1 of three things will happen:

1. She won't like you and you'll be totally embarrassed and the friendship will finish

2. She won't like you but she'll go on with the friendship although she wouldn't consider you a 'good' friend, and it will always be a bit awkward 4 the both of you

3. She will like you

let things happen by themselves, like it does in the movies not everything that they say will only happen in the movies will only happen in the movies

Answer 5

I would give it time. If you know that she considers you to be just a good friend...then I would give it time. You dont want to straight out tell her how you feel then have her feel uncomfortable around you and possibly lose your friendship over it. It happened to me in the past, so I have a idea. I would just give it time.

Answer 6

I say let her know...usually girls are just waiting for the boy to go first. Just tell her you love having her as a friend but are curious to see if it could go any further. If she says no just let her know you still want the friendship. Go with your heart! <3

Answer 7

im going to tell you like i tell all my friends, u should always follow your heart, if u really like her then go for it, tell her how u really feel. But if u think it will mess up your friendship then u should keep it to yourself until the right time comes to let her know.

Answer 8

well , im a girl, and if i had a friend like that i would want him to tell me how he feels. but, you should really ask one of her close girl friends is she likes you first, that way you can be sure she feels the same about you. another option is to tell the girl about a "friend" of yours likes a girl and they're really good friends but your "friend" wants to be more... and ask her what you should tell your "friend" to do... that would be really cute

Answer 9

If you are really good friends, tell her how you feel. Worst comes to worst, she says no and you continue your friendship. I've included a site that has a good article on this exact subject.

Answer 10

usally the reason why I stay friends with guys and don't go further than that is because I like their personality but am not attracted to them. If you think you are cute enough (or match her in the cutes department) then go for it!