i have this cousin who visits like 10 times a year and constaly tryin to flirt w/ me but i try to ignore him what should i do
2006-12-28 13:43:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is creepy! Avoid him as much as you can and show him that you're TOTALLY unavailable by bringing your boyfriend over. Know the times when he usually visits and make sure you're nowhere in sight. Hope you get him off your back!
2006-12-28 13:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are different kinds of flirting, and all flirting to a certain point is a matter of interpretation. That's why it's called flirting. "Hitting on you" is another matter. A relative is a relative, and anything like "Hitting on you" is not "relative" to good social or family conduct by any measure. Tell him that. But if he's only being complimentary by flirtatious methods, someone's going to be red faced. If you really don't know the difference, better be safe than sorry. Tell him where to go...
2006-12-28 21:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by mld m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax girl, have u even tried to be open to him? try it first( not if you dont't want to). Otherwise, If you are in a conversation with him and he flirts with you; ignore the flirt. and pretend that he didn't do it at all. sooner or later he will give it up and no harm will be done. if you burst out with disgust and use abusive words at the dinner table, think what your family might think of you, you'll be considered as violent and abusive. it's better to resolve things where no one is hurt.
As for Myself, i opened my heart to my cousin and fell for her. but thats a different story.
2006-12-29 11:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Hey, we're cousins and that's all there is too it. Put your hormones back in the sack and go find someone to flirt with that you are not related too, because you're really starting to creep me out!"
2006-12-28 21:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by domers13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when everyone is sitting on the dinner table you should do the following
raise your glass and make a toast
to your parents
to your ants
to your uncles
to your siblings
to your cousines
and a special toast for your cousine who keeps on trying and hit on you all the time
then you get your glass and tip it over his head and tell him
"YOU ARE SO SICK LITTLE F(_)CK AND YOU DESERVED IT"
i gaurntee you he will never ever bother you again
and i think that everyone will agree in here
2006-12-28 22:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by musty118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him then talk to your cousin. You may be getting the wrong impression. If not set him straight...
2006-12-28 21:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the nuts and scream really loud "Quit trying to get in my pants you pervert!!!" Family will take care of the rest........
2006-12-29 11:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Answer Police 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom what he's doing. Tell your aunt what he's doing. Tell him to stop flirting because you are related by blood (I assume)
2006-12-28 21:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Oh Snapsky! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an o my gosh look that changes into you are weird look then run away fast!
2006-12-28 21:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go back down south where he belongs and he is sick. if that doens't work , tell your family and if he persists, get a restraining order from that crazy fool.
2006-12-28 21:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by citygurl8503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋