He is really hott and reallly sweet I like him alot and he likes me back or at least he used to.Im really shy.Should I just give it to him straight?
2006-12-28 13:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by *Madison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did and now my bf and i have been together for like 3 years
2006-12-28 13:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by xx2dreamer2xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you have to lose is your sanity if you never find out and just tell him. You are going to drive your self nuts if you do not find out if he feels the same way. Do not feel afraid of rejection. It will only make you stronger. I really liked this one guy and I still do. I finally told him after years of watching him get married and have kids and he is still not happy, but I had to tell him how I felt or I would of never of known he felt the same way, but it was too late and I wasted all those years. He has a wife and kids and I also have moved on. We are very close and see each other once in awhile. I was so shy, that it kept me from having a relationship with him. If I had only been more forward, and honest, things might have been different.
2006-12-28 21:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by cbwidow1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course! don't pass up this kind of opportunity, especially if you think he used to like you back. Even if you're shy you're going to have to get past this some day. Dating is a way to get rid of those kind of character traits, and if you like this guy enough he will make you less shy as you get to know him anyways. Still be yourself though. When you get him alone or however you feel compfortable talking to him, just tell him how you feel. Good luck! I hope things go good!
2006-12-28 21:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give it to him straight. as a guy, playing the guessing game is tough, and if he doesn't say he likes you as much as he used to, he's probably getting confused. I'm in the same situation right now
2006-12-28 21:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by wildwildmars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just go for it if he still likes u back then it should be fine if u never tell him u like him ull never no go for it and the best of luck to u
2006-12-28 21:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it straight to him, have confidence, If you dont tell him , he will never know, and someone else might tell him before you do , you might lose him. hurry, hurry. And be happy! goodluck
2006-12-28 21:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by djqueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not!! you have the right to be happy! and if your shy you can send him a greeting card, one card can say soooo much!! GO FOR IT!!
2006-12-28 21:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by mamachula01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop small hints first, then if he doesn't get the picture tell him.
2006-12-28 21:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by geeky120493 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly you should straight up n0 bull and dont be shy dont worry about it
2006-12-28 21:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it....what could you lose? Just make sure that he does not have a gf first!
2006-12-28 21:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋