Which guy to date? i cant pick?
i met this guy that i am crazy for, i am so into him that it even scares me....and he treats me nice, he says he likes me too, and i am heels over my head for him, but not as nice as my guy friend. i have a guy friend that i've known for 2 years and he is really nice to me, he is always there for me, he even brings me food and takes of work when i am sick, and recently he said that he wants to be more than just firends, but i only see him as a friend....so now i am lost...i am not the kind of girl who can date 2 guys at the same time, but i dont know who should i pick........ i really want them both, but it wont be fair
2006-12-28 13:41:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pick the nice guy. You will get tired of the other guy. Sure, you are excited about him now, but over a period of years, that excitment will wear off. And then you will be stuck with a guy that doesn't treat you nice. The nice guy will always be nice.
2006-12-28 13:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Moesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the 2nd one that you need to see if relationship with #1 works out before you can see him! If he trully loves you he'll wait and see! Don't be a 2 timer! They'll both hate you for that!
2006-12-28 21:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but your very confused.Impossible for a lady to be in love with two men at the same time,if you were a man then it is possible not monogomous.Are you sleeping with both of them?My advice give them both up and contact me.I will keep you on the straight and narrow.
2006-12-28 22:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pick the one tht ur' heart tells u...follow ur' heart...ur' friend might be the best choice..u say tht u knew him for 2 years n the other one for...but maybe the one u met is just messing w u..maybe the friend might be it...but dont listen to anyone other than ur' heart..it always tells u the best n the truth...
best of luck...
2006-12-28 21:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by i*love*u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said you only liked one as a friend, so naturally pick the one you have feelings for, and the other one will still be a friend, if he really cares for you...........
2006-12-28 21:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have a better and secured life if u pick the second one....BUT eventually, you'll break his heart because you really dont like him that way. So i think you should pick the first one, you'll be happier if he likes you too.
2006-12-28 21:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by o_o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart! i'm sure everything will work out! if the other guy cares about you, they will be happy for you!! :)
2006-12-28 21:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Laurie C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither...You're not in love with either guy and you know it.
2006-12-28 21:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by rusty_1491 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geeee, clingy are we?
2006-12-28 21:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋