not sure whether I am just wasting time ,i know it is hard and there are reasonsbut are they valid? will this change
2006-12-28 13:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by lovelong 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Waaaaaaay too vague sweeting. Sorry :)
Blessings,
Zimmi
2006-12-28 13:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Zimmia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking, as I am reading you, about a potential partner who is being a little evasive regarding his feelings for you, then please don't think me impertinent with the following. Its just what I am picking up, and as I don't know you, I'm not sure how you will react, but here goes:
You are at a stage in your life at which you feel you should be putting down some firm foundations for the future. This is after a period of unsettled and perhaps traumatic activity in your life which you have come through and are very proud of yourself for doing so, and quite rightly,You perhaps feel that you have been through a lot and are now ready to start 'the real life' that you feel is your future. However, this other person, is subconsciously picking up on the fact that you have not truly found yourself yet. He doesn't realise this, its just he hasn't quite got a true picture of you and his subconscious knows this and can't commit until he is sure he is seeing the real you. This other person is also carrying baggage from his past that is perhaps colouring his views and allowing him to make assumptions about you that may not be realistic. The good news is that this will pass. Please do not make any irreversible decisions at this time. If possible, keep the faith and stay friends but do not get too worked up if this relationship does not proceed as you think you want it to right now. There's nothing wrong with not having a 'special someone' right now, and you will gain more confidence from not defining yourself as part of a couple at ths stage in your life. You will begin to like just being you very shortly and then you will become EXTREMELY attractive to whatever sex you are attracted to. This person will then come running and fall at your feet, though don't be surprised if you have grown as a person by the time this happens and are no longer as interested as you once were. You probably won't believe that this is possible right now but, when it happens, you won't feel in the least put out as your new found confidence and lust for life will allow you to see that you have other opportunities if this proves not to be the right one, though I've a feeling that there are surprises in store (nice ones) that you can't believe would be possible right now.. I feel that this process will take about 4 months. Patience is the key, and try to view your life as a show you are watching rather than something you have to run about making happen, as I suspect you are doing at the moment. God Bless, email me if you want to..
2006-12-28 21:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to be barrier of bad news but unless ur very patient n willing to wait for him to make up his mind u need to move on cause he has more issues than u will ever be willing endure.there is however someone awaiting for ur love,they r just laying low until the right time.if u have to ask these questions then hes not what u want in life..you will be asking more questions about him cause hes a sneaky type of person..its like hes playing games with ur mind n your not the only one he is seeing.i think u already know this...i would move on but its ur time hes wasting if u dont....
2006-12-28 21:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by purrdykitten2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want our help, you need to rephrase the question so that we can better understand the situation. Better yet, don't waste our time, send a letter to "Dear Abby" in the paper. She seems to be better at this sort of thing.
2006-12-28 21:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by cyberjar88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, no such things as psychics.
2006-12-28 21:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by eri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋