There is this girl i like so much i saw her the first time at a party but was too shy to talk to her.The second time she came for another party i simply can't resist her how could you guys advice me on how to start a conversation, things to say to atleast boost my chances of suceeding.
2006-12-28 13:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you ask guys for advice when women are the ones who can best answer this?
Walk up to her - smile and say "hello my name is...." offer to get her something or take her coat or whatever. and overall BE A GENTLEMAN. there is nothing that turns a nice girl off than crude humour or stupid comments. Just be yourself and make conversation. "what school do you go to? Grades? Ambitions? Dreams?" etc. No gossip or negative stuff.
2006-12-28 13:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and realize that she is one of MANY girls you will have the same feelings for in the future. DO NOT tell her you are in love with her. Make eye contact next time you see her. If she maintains eye contact, or steels glances at you, walk up to her and tell her why you find her so attractive. Then ask her about things she likes, get her talking about herself. If you listen and relax things should go well from there.
2006-12-28 21:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by lovedoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something that you may have in common, if you cant do that, stand near her and simply say hello and smile. If she is interested in you she will take it from there and talk back to you. you could say "hey cool party, did you come here with your girlfriends", or someone from their school. Find out who her friends are and if she allready has a boyfriend. If that doesnt seem possible, compliments are always remembered by a girl
Good Luck!
2006-12-28 21:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by nicholas k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not as hard as you might think. Just walk up to her and say hi, my name is Pete what is yours? Ask her a question about something she's wearing or compliment her on her looks. And try your hardest to make her laugh, women love a guy that has a sense of humor. What's the worst thing that can happen? She says no or ignores you? So what, you tried right?
2006-12-28 21:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Introduce yourself first, then let her know you saw her at the last party. If you can dance, ask her. If she does not, talk about how much fun you had at the last one, slowly change conversation to what she is interested in and what she likes to do, then ask if she would like to go out with you sometime and do whatever it is that she likes to do.
2006-12-28 21:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to start a conversation with a girl you could walk up to her and say hi.then talk about a previous or upcoming advent that you think she might like.maybe if you get to know her and like her after 2 or3 conversations with her you could ask her out.this is coming from two girls who are 11 that have boyfriends.these are just a couple of things our boyfriend's had said to us at first.good luck.
2006-12-28 21:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by YOUNGANDMATURE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no im not a guy but i think i can help you got to talk to her most girls love brave guys that will just talk to them and even if they dont like u they might grow to like you and most of the time girl will axccept u because you were brave enough to talk to her..=) good luck =P xoxo kisa
2006-12-28 21:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple, be yourself, be polite, be honest. You cant lose if you just be yourself. Leave the smooth moves up to the guys that wouldnt be asking this question. We all have to start some place, so you can start with being you.
2006-12-28 21:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by slumchump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't "like her so much."
She's just another girl, that makes her easier to talk to in the first place.
You need some platonic female friends. They'll get you used to talking to girls.
2006-12-28 21:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, who better to answer than a girl herself. You need to act as if you aren't nervous, and say hi, compliment her but don't ask her out right away.
2006-12-28 21:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋