i have 4 kids now, 8, 6,5 and 2 month old, should i have another?
2006-12-28 13:09:29 · 14 answers · asked by americansugar80 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sounds like you should focus your energy on the kids you have now, instead of considering having even more. A new baby can take more attention and focus off of your 4 kids who need you right now. They are all at very important ages of developing who they will be in the future too! Spend time with them, instead of having another baby.
2006-12-28 13:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by tia_artlist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are busy! Its hard enough with four kids , especially at all different stages as yours are, if you want to have more, then go for it, but wait awhile, give yourself and your other kids a chance to breathe and be together as is, before adding to your family. Children are always a blessing, but you need to take care of yourself and your family too...hard to do with another on the way this soon. Enjoy your little ones! Good Luck!
2006-12-28 21:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a world that is exploding with overpopulation, where we are killing our seas with our waste, where 40,000 children starve to death every day because wealthy nations keep bidding up the price of food, where we are losing 2% of our arable land every year, where global warming is destroying the environment because of our shear numbers, I would say you should have stopped after two. ZPG (Zero Population Growth) NOW!
2006-12-28 21:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking anybody? That is a completely personal choice between you and your partner only...
If you want my two cents: you are young, what's the rush, focus on the kids that are here now...
2006-12-28 21:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by lawpmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a decision you have to make with your partner. I think that if you cant take care of another child physically and financially than you shouldnt have another child. Best wishes
2006-12-28 21:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question that you should ask yourself is can you handle or afford another one, if you think so then go right ahead if not then you should think twice about it
2006-12-28 21:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your wife, she's the one that goes through it all. i have 4 kids as well but have my family now
2006-12-28 21:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can handle that bunch first before having another.
2006-12-28 21:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord! Isn't 4 enough?!
2006-12-28 21:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you afford them both emotionally and financially?
2006-12-28 23:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋