me and my bf have been together for a month now and he is the sweetest most caring guy that i have me...when i talk to him on the phone i feel at homa and that i have finally found my match...but i have a big problem....not to brag..(seriously) :( but im at the top of my high school senior class and i expect soo much out of my future life...he graduated last year and he never went to school afterwards.....he works, spends time with his friends and plays Halo...thats pretty much it....ans also...he may not be the most handsome guy i wished for...but he understands me like no other and his inside is worth so much to me...Is it wrong for me to be with him and doubt our relationship? its like i love him...but my parents dont think hes worthy of me and that i deserve better...i know that they want the best for me....but idk....sumtimes they convince me that hes not the one for me :(...what do i do?
2006-12-28 12:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by j22leal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you enjoy his company and he is not putting you in any questionable situations then it's ok to hang out with him. it doesn't have to be so serious. you are still in high school and it sounds like you are probably going to go to college. just don't make any long term commitments and things will work out.
2006-12-28 12:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by mellokittyx4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down. You in high school. Have fun and continue to date the guy if you like, and if you find something better go after it. You are young and probably about 6-10 years from marriage. This is the best time of your life coming up. Put the drama away and do what you want to do. There is no pressure on you except for what you make. Stick with the guy if you are having fun. Who knows, maybe he will change and become the complete package you are looking for. But keep your options open at the same time. Good luck.
2006-12-28 12:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a decision to make, he will probably never have a job that will allow you to have "the finer things in life". You will no doubt get by with no extra money to buy school clothes. You will be challenged at work by people of your equal intelligence and drive. while at home your laborer husband will never understand you because of your superior intelligence and dedication. It may work out, he may be just what you need, but you will have to lower your expectations drastically or pull him through life kicking and screaming.. I think this relationship is doomed. Aim a little higher..Good luck!! You will need it. Listen to your parents.
2006-12-28 13:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by buzf00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stick with it for now. Wait and see what happens when you go to College. He may grow up and grow with you. Or he may not be the one for you. My husband was not into school. He did get an associates, but just didn't like school. He did get a good job and went from a skinny dork to one hot guy.
2006-12-28 12:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by darlene 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think money and material things are just extras however it sounds like you want to just keep growing and going forward and he will be left behind for sure because you want different things out of life but who knows if he makes you really happy only time will tell.Good luck keep going full steam ahead
2006-12-28 12:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still in high school just date him casually and don't get too involved like sex and commitment. I had a lot of boyfriends who were fun and cute but I knew I never wanted to hook up with them permanently.
2006-12-28 12:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look do what you really think is right for you,, only you know what you really want if you really love him then stay with him and im sure that you two will work something out.. as much as you want that perfect guy theres never ever gonna b one so think about what you are gonna do before you do something that you will regreat later on in life..
2006-12-28 12:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you're saying is horrible and shallow. Stop jerking this poor guy around. Not having you in his life will be the best thing that's ever happened to him.
2006-12-28 12:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋