I'm still compleatly in Love with him.
After we broke up, I Moved to Florence Italy for school, Seem to be a great way to get over him too!!
BUT NOOOOO I'm still compleatly in love with him.
I have to go to the town where he lives before i leave, And he is beening super insistant on me staying with him, whitch i'm not, but what the hell does that mean? i haven't seen him in 6 months, and i don't know if i should since i still have these strong feelings for him still!!!! PLease help me on what to do, or how to move on....
He has been in my dreams everynight for the past 4 years we dated and he is still in them everynight, i don't know how to get him out! I don't know what to do!!! I'm going crazy, and this is so not healthy for me...
P.S. I haven't been able to meet anyone else i've given them the chance but i haven't liked any of the guys i've dated at all...
2006-12-28 12:39:46 · 12 answers · asked by Pilsner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then, as long as there are no roadblocks, go for it. Why not? Life it too short to pass up the love of your life.
Give caution where caution is due, but if all is well....let the good times roll.
Don't stay with him.....you can date him again and test him out to be sure he is still be one.
2006-12-28 12:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get over him, write down the reasons that you broke up. Ask yourself if those reasons are still important to you. It is a technique called "remember the shlt". In other words, remember the bad stuff. If it really doesn't seem bad, then get back together.
You ask what does it mean that he is insisting on you staying with him - it means he is horny, or maybe that he still has feelings for you, or both. Have you tried talking to him about your breakup and the reasons for it?
2006-12-28 20:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toughy.
The best way to get over something, is to just forget about it. Well....It worked for me. I just went and focused on other things. E.g. my school work. But pick up a hobby or something. Just to keep your head in, so that you aren't always thinking about him.
Also, go out there and find yourself someone. Maybe the reason you haven't liked them, is because they are nothing like this other guy.
2006-12-28 20:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absence makes the heart grow fonder.. or so the saying goes. Never go back.. things will not be the same and he's probably not sitting around waiting for you.
2006-12-28 20:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in love with hi you should ask hi to move to Florence with you.
2006-12-28 21:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get over him because if you two end up getting back together im so sure that it is not going to work out at all... look for other guys im sure that he is not the only one..
2006-12-28 20:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by pixiejvgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't meat anyone else because you're too hung up on comparing them to your ex. Move on.
2006-12-28 20:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you fell and maybe he fells the same way? Maybe thats why he wonts you to stay with him maybe hes mr.right. Aie?
2006-12-28 20:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Poots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may just need closure. Spend some time with him and get it.
2006-12-28 20:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Journey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
but why do you fight it? maybe its meant to be>? what is wrong with him...why fight it.....man....what is wrong with you...i would hate to be your ex....you don't give nobody a chance....what ever happened to forgiveness...i guess what he did to you was not forgive able
2006-12-28 21:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋