2006-12-28 11:55:58 · 22 answers · asked by henry a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speak louder than words my good man!
Throw her onto the bed and ravage her body like a mad drunken sailor. If she tries to give you the old heave-ho, tie her up to the rigging.
2006-12-28 13:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love improving their guys. Ask her what sort of clothes would suit you, then browse around the stores or what sort of hairstyle would suit you. Even if you don't do anything about it or take her advice its something to talk about.
Ask her what she'de like to do in the future - what countries she'de like to visit, etc. Ask her what her interests are and 'How did you get started in that?', do you meet lots of people doing that?', and 'Are you going to do that at university/as a job?', etc.
Ask really open-ended questions where she can talk for ages about people she knows, funny stories, events, places, ambitions, etc. Ask follow up questions to show you're listening. Listen carefully and try to remember what she says. If she says she is going to do something, like go to a party, ask her how it went the next time you see her, to show you remember the things she says.
The stuff you talk about doesn't have to be heavyweight stuff, just movies, TV, amusing gossip about people you know without being negative or critical, nice places to go, etc. You don't have to impress her by only talking about 'important' things.
Read the local paper or news/entertainment sites every day for ideas.
Keep it all up-beat and let her know you like her and spending time with her.
You can also do a google search for 'small talk' articles.
2006-12-28 12:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by ricochet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep the conversation light. What's her favorite colour? Movie? Actress? Actor? ... find out things about her. Siblings? Parents? Does she perfer to write with a pen/pencil/crayon? :) Save the deep intense conversations (religion, politics, sexual history) for later when you decide that you want to be with her. You never know, you might hate the fact that she likes Coke and not Pepsi... :) Good luck!
2006-12-28 12:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by C F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really like the girl find out what interests her,ask her friends or her parents also her likes and dislikes . That should do for a start . Take it from there. good luck .
2006-12-28 15:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They do all the talking anyway. So, what's the problem? Can you do the horizontal boogaloo? Do you have great hands? That's all you need for chicks. They don't care what we talk about...they never listen to us anyway. If you have to talk, just say "Yes, dear" and "hey, wanna go shopping" and stupid stuff like that.
2006-12-28 11:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well start off with i love you for sure & she means everything to you.Those 3 little words are a big thing for the girls.Music. films even sports is enough to get going.Work holidays whatever.It should all come naturally. Don't forget the i love yous!!
2006-12-28 14:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to make her feel important, valued and look foward to seeing you again ask her lots of questions about herself. This will make her feel good. It will show her that her opinion matters. Ask her how she feels about the things that matter to you or anything going on in the news. Listen to her answers and look at her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Listening is as important as asking questions.
Ask about her friends and family.... Do not ask her about past relationships!!!! Save that for later in your relationship.... Ask open ended questions that will encourage ongoing conversation.. not just yes and no questions. Good luck....Here's to great conversations...
2006-12-28 12:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by parapluie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Religion, Politics, past Sexual History???
LOL....I think NOT. That is the surest way to make the first date the LAST date!
2006-12-28 12:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot figure out what to talk about you may not be a good match.
2006-12-28 12:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by forestofblade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human cloning.
The future of the space program.
Politics and which politicians either of you like and why?
Evolution vs. Religion
Celebrities
Music
Anal Sex
2006-12-28 12:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋