I'm crazy about my boyfriend, but he just doesn't appreciate me. He is 3 years older than me and is a pretty rough guy but he usually is a sweetheart to me but lately he hasnt even noticed me. I got all ready cuz he said he was taking me out tonight and then he called and said he was just gonna go to bed. The other day we were in the car and i gave him a kiss and he said i kiss him too much. I just dont know what to do. I try and all he wants to do is do drugs or sleep.
2006-12-28 11:53:29 · 25 answers · asked by godscutie415 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drugs... oh great. Listen, I wish I could convince you... it's going nowhere. Really, NO WHERE. End it before things get worse. And I guarantee you they will. Please, dump him and don't even look back.
2006-12-28 11:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your trying to hard at this relationship. I mean your the only one that seems to be working at making it work out. Probably if you really thought about it you'd realize your really not that happy in your relationship with your boyfriend otherwise you wouldn't be writing this question in the first place. He just seems to be in his own little world doing the things he likes to do, not thinking or caring about what you'd like to do. So be honest. Don't you think you could do better and possibly find a guy that you would really enjoy being with. One that would also enjoy being with you instead of doing drugs and sleeping. ;o) good luck.
2006-12-28 20:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hesittate, dump him the first chance you get. If he's that much older than you, he obviously wants to take advantage of you. All he wants is sex. I used to have a friend like this, and it hurt me to see him do that to girls I knew, and girls that were my friends. He doesn't respect you, and he's missing out on alot if he doesn't want to go to a date with you. And no guy says their girlfriend kisses too much. If mine did that you wouldn't see me complaining. Well. I just hope this helps, IM me if you wanna chat about it or somethin.
Good luck.
~Kevin
2006-12-28 19:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling hes about to break up with u/ or he wants to. I think you should just call it quits with him and move on.
Besides you don't wanna fall in love with a guy who does drugs. What if yall were to get married or have kids. Would you want ur kids around drugs??? I don't think so. Best wishes!!!
2006-12-28 19:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Country Girl 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're crazy about someone who is putting himself first all the time. The very fact he is taking drugs you should not be around him.
You cannot change him so do yourself a favor and move on before he drags you into the gutter with him
2006-12-28 19:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does drugs, why are you even lowering yourself to date him? What girl wants to date a scuzzy guy who is high all the time. Dump him, then go out and find a real man.
2006-12-28 19:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jen Armero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. look at the situation. you are showering him with attention all he does is ignore you. If he really cared about you, he would take the time to pay some attention to you, but if all he likes doing is drugs and sleep, hoeny you need to dump him ASAP. time is actualyl a healer and you deserve better, someone who gives you respect and time1 not someone who is selfish!! and that is what he is, selfish!
and once you break up with him, give it some time and ou WILL find someone better!!!!!! dump him now!!
2006-12-28 19:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Pearl A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer. Ditch him. If he cannot appreciate you or acknowledge you then it is a one-sided relationship. Perhaps breaking up with him will jerk him out of his current behaviour pattern and you will again have the guy you fell in love with.
Leave him otherwise you are dishonouring yourself.
2006-12-28 19:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy hs come off the relationship
when u first when togther it was a fresh relationship but some guys get bored quik
plus u said somethin bout drug maybe its the drugssss
dont break up first talk then if he doesnt chnge let him go
2006-12-28 19:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a guy who just wants to do drugs or sleep? Get a back bone and get yourself into an adult relationship.
2006-12-28 19:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is in the last 3 words. He is into drugs. You should be into another boyfriend.
2006-12-28 19:55:32 · answer #11 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋