a young man wants to have somewhere between 5 and 11 children. He current has no college degree,he doesn't have any chilren yet. And he also say's it'd be nice if he could have all of them with one woman. If not, he plans on at mininum to have them and do all he can to be in thier lives.
2006-12-28 11:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I don't think i explained it good enough. He actually wants to be there for all 11 if he has the chance to have them. the issue itrying to address is to really see how many is to many and why base on what he currently doesn't have. asa well as show him. that some things you just have to plan out no matter how much you know it can change. remember he wants between 5-11 kids by one woman if possible. he say's because his grand-dad had 7 with 1 outside and his grandmother went and got the other child and brought her home with her siblings to be raised with the family. so i think he feels if he finds the right young lady he can have his cake and eat it too.
2006-12-28 15:50:24 · update #1
ok if he's willing to work really hard in future then he can have 5 children's but since he has no degree in hand i think he should have or can have atleast 2 to 3 kids
2006-12-28 11:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say 1-2. If your persistent enough to properly take care of this family, the proper way with health insurance and such, I don't think it'd be a problem. But 5-11 children? That's waaay too many. If it were to happen naturally (5 at one time) the governemnt would give you money, but considering this to be a VERY rare case, I wouldn't get your hopes up about it.
2006-12-28 19:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
5-11 children is a population. if the guy is young he should put the idea of having children in the closet and think about his education and future.....that way he can give his children a better life because he would be more mature.
and....he should make sure that all are from the same woman.
2006-12-28 20:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by alizelatina41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The young man should have one before deciding on how many to have, It is different to have five children then to imagine having 5 children, He's already planning not to be with the mom, this kid needs to get his life together, before bringing children into the picture,
I have five children, you really need 2 loving parents
2006-12-28 19:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by melissa s 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1 would be a good place to start. And you should really not even start there until you have a college degree. It is not fair to bring children into the world that you can not provide for.
2006-12-28 23:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by pierronmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just irresponsible and selfish. Why would you want to have that many children?
If you just love children, I think it's wonderful when people adopt that many children, if they are good parents.
However, if you are already lower-middle class, don't end up using my tax dollars for welfare for you and your huge family because YOU want that many kids... that's completely unfair and socially irresponsible.
2006-12-28 19:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tiff 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Selfish and irresponsible says it all. I get the impression he wants to HAVE many children. It doesn't sound like it is important to him to RAISE them.
Selfish and irresponsible.
2006-12-28 21:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋