there is this guy I really liked and he acted like he liked me alot,we were always together and were really affectionate with each other. Then one day he told me he liked a friend of ours and left me crushed.
On Christmas Eve he can over and told me he loves me and wants to be my boyfriend and is sorry for the way he treated me.
I still like him but i'm confused and I don't want to get hurt again.
What should I do?
2006-12-28 11:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by chavagirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful what you do to start with and say nothing until you have analyzed the situation thoroughly and weighed the risks & benefits. What do you think brought this situation on? Do you think he will see another friend of yours and decide the same thing? Then you should do what you feel is right for you, not what others tell you. One of two things has occured, the other girl turned him down, or he felt bad because of what he did to you and changed his mind. I'm betting the first one, but I don't know this guy so only you can make that decision. Hope this helps.
2006-12-28 11:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, He is wanting to start the relationship out with I love you? That could be a sign of only wanting one thing! If you trust him go for it it! I really think you should spend more time together before the big I LOVE YOU comes out. Follow your heart it will lead you in the right direction!
2006-12-28 11:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the other girl might have let him down and you are the back up. Don't be in a rush to go out. Let him work at gaining your trust.
2006-12-28 11:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You will always feel like second choice and that will not go away. He chose someone over you once, he will do it again.
He probably got dumped and you are the safety net. Don't do it!
2006-12-28 11:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by rtzjim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, In my opnion dont talk to him, play hard to get, since he left you like that , So thats the best thing you can and see how he reacts, if he likes youo, then he will chase after you and if he doesnt then he wont chase or show any interrest. So i think thats what you should do and see how he acts.....tell me what happens.....GOOD LUCK :)
2006-12-28 11:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him still, give him a chance - but go very very slow. He may be on the rebound from the other girl, if she broke up with him. On the other hand, your pride may stop you from having anything to do with him. ....Think it through.
2006-12-28 11:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you remember what he did to you? He just said that he liked your friend and left you there! How were you feeling just then? Give him a taste of his own medicine.
2006-12-28 11:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should Say No U can find someone thats better
2006-12-28 11:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once a loser always a loser.
He will end up braking your heart again, dont do it hes not worht it.
Good luck.
2006-12-28 11:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by tifaislove21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on without him. He is using you as a fall back, you deserve better.
2006-12-28 11:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋