Been with my gf for 2.5 years dated for 18 months. She gave me an ultimatum and I said we would be bf gf. I was very unsure at the time. I dont think I love her because I dont miss her much when I dont see her. I used to be pretty atrracted to her but am not much anymore. All we ever really talk about is work, and am starting to realize we have less and less in common when it comes to fun and friends. The 2.5 years went by very quick. I moved out of my parents house when we first met and about a year ago I got rid of roomates and got my own place. This was a very rough time. now I am more relaxed and secure. She is a great person, she always answers the phone and isnt shady a bit. She is always there when I need her and never makes up any ridiculous stories about where she is, was, etc. I am now 24 and want to go out and date before i get any older. If I loved her I dont think I would want to. It has been such a long time and I dont know what to do. I feel bad breaking up with her.
2006-12-28 11:24:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In order for a relationship to work, you need chemistry. If you don't have chemistry, there's no point of being together because you are wasting your time.
2006-12-28 11:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to be honest with her. If you think you want to see other people . . . tell her now. The longer you put off telling her, the harder it will be for both of you. Maybe once you date a few others, you will realize how much she really does mean to you . . and then you two can take it from there. On the other hand, you may meet the one you were meant for. Follow your instincts. Good luck.
2006-12-28 19:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_carmel_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love an war. If she aint satisfying you end it. you are livin a lie from what you said an it not fair on her either. if you r meant to be you will get back together later on after you done your own thing. marriage is for the over 50 s anyway
2006-12-28 19:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by paul t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bigt1622 - you've answered you own Q without realizing it on the 2nd line.If you don't miss her you really don't love her.you wouldn't consider ditching her.
For my part i'm completely in love with my adorable American girlfriend.Granted it's pretty new for us but she's gone back home to her family in the USA for New Years.She's only gone 2 days & i'm SO miserable without her.We've phoned & emailed - but it's not the same.She's not here with me.I miss her so much.
If you're not in the same boat as me my friend i think your realtionship with your gf has run it's course.you'll feel bad for sure but if you don't love her it's not fair on her is it? good luck anyways mate.
2006-12-28 22:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure that you dont love her and you waste your time with her then brake up. i know it is hard but you got to move on. and you know what people say - if you hit the 30s unmarried then the chances of getting a nice family are minimum. it is not always true but who knows. you still got time but i think you should spilt up with your girl. she seems like a nice and good girl but if she is not what you have dreamed of then whats the pont of wasting your life? think about it
2006-12-28 19:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by vamy189 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it's over it's over.
You both need to get on with your lives and find the people you are going to spend the rest of your lives with.
Ask yourself: do you want to marry this girl and be the father of her children?
If the answer is no, get out of there, for both your sakes.
2006-12-28 19:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Chemistry, No Chance.
2006-12-29 05:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh, this is a tough one mate!
only you can truely answer this question, do a bit of soul searching & see what come about
all I can really say is:
better the devil you know than the devil you dont!
2006-12-28 19:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋