Should I call this boy if he asked me to call him after Christmas to go see a movie. Then if he missed my Birthday party right after Christmas. Even though I called him the night before with details. Plus I sit next to him in one of my classes would it be akward if I didn't call him? Does it mean he likes me since he asked me this? Help I am so confused!
2006-12-28 11:19:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a girl and no he doesn't have a girl friend!
2006-12-28 11:25:42 · update #1
He said that he would come to my party!
2006-12-28 11:26:16 · update #2
I am not allowed to text.
2006-12-28 11:28:19 · update #3
♥ ♥ if he asked you to call him then call him, he may of had a good reason to miss your birthday, ♥ ♥
2006-12-28 11:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As he asked you to call him after Christmas and you agreed to do so, I would give him a call, even though he missed your birthday party right after Christmas. Around the Holidays most people are tied up with family members and activities whether they want to be or not and he may not have been able to wrangle out of it and might feel embarrassed or that you might be mad at you so he hasn't called you (he should have if he agreed to come and didn't make it, but boys don't always think about that or it makes them feel like they are answering to their mother, which is a total turnoff).
If you didn't agree to return his call and he just asked you to, then you are under no real social obligation to call him if you did not want to.
If you call I would stick with the "How was your Holiday" and "Really missed you coming to my Birthday Party as we had a lot of fun" (it acknowledges that he wasn't there, opens the door for him to tell you why he didn't make it, but in a non-theatening, accusitory way) but not bring up the movie...if he is still interested, he will bring it up, if he doesn't, he may not be ready for the next step or he may not be sure how he feels about you.
It sounds like he likes you but is insecure about asking you out as he want you to do all of the calling; if he were more secure, he would have asked if it was ok for him to call you after Christmas to see a movie and then followed through with what he said he was going to do.
2006-12-28 19:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Im gonna try to help you, I am a boys so this is through my point of view, We do not think of things like this that often, that is probably why he didnt call you. Try to play hard to get we tend to go after only what we think we cant have, so try not to be so clingy. Some of us even know that you girls like guys who stay cool and try not to act desperate on trying to meet girls and kinda mean I guess. Cause it makes you want him more. So don't call him more than 2-3 times a week, Don't bother with him usually he will try to bother with you!!! I hope I helped, Good Luck!
JordanFroce@yahoo.com
2006-12-28 19:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have anything to loose if your single but you can't get mad at him sence it it so close to Chrismas he might of had plans. If he told you that he could make it and that he would go, but he didn't and he didn't call you and tell you he couldn't go...Well then you could get mad at him but it all depends on how much you like him. Does he know you like him in a relationship way or just as a friend?; Do you even know the guy in as a friend. I think it's best to know someone as a friend: first to see if you actually like him: second if you do that then yall might have a better chance of being friends if yall do date and go out and if it doesn't work out. But hey I'm only 14 and It is just my thought, it's realy up to you what you wanna do not anyone elses, but it is nice to know someone elses thoughts on things....Best wishes to you and him....Lata
2006-12-28 19:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nitsua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you never know if his door is still open.
just talk to him and make sure the light between you to is still alive.
just ask him if he wants to go and see a movie.
guys can be complicated and he might have had to do something important instead of going to your birthday party.
but just go with the flow.
good luck and just relax reassure he doesn't have a girlfriend because all that time you wasted.
2006-12-28 19:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i think he does like u. second it probably be akward if u don't call him. but why don't u talk to him before class instead of calling him. u will probably tell if he likes u by the tone of voice he uses.
2006-12-28 19:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Holly W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u called the nite b4 the party he could have already had plans he probably likes u and it could b awkward if u didnt call him so just call him and give ti a shot! good luck!
2006-12-28 19:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait for him to call you. Otherwise you'll look a bit too desperate considering he's not making too much of an effort.
2006-12-28 19:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him honey you want HIM to go to you dont go to him if you dont call him then itll get him to want you more just let him ask you why you didnt call him and just say you were really busy and that way youll no that hes been thinking about you callin him dont let you want him make him want you
Good luck n best wishes!
texaschick747@yahoo.com
2006-12-28 19:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him to find out the truth about him?
2006-12-28 19:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋