i cant seem to be able to be with somebody longer than 3 years. this time just like last time, just as he prepares to propose to me, i start to have doubts and to think about leaving him. the same happened in the previous relation i had. am i being superficial?or... it just happened so, and it's nothing special? im pretty young, im 22, yet i think about a future, but it seems i always fall apart in my relations at some point by meeting somebody else
2006-12-28 11:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They were not meant for you when you meet one that is you will want what he wants.
2006-12-28 11:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young. I would not worry about it now. Date and have fun, stay away from serious relationships for now. When you get older you will want someone in your life to share moments with and you will be willing to commit yourself to them. Stay away from temptations if you don't want to ruin the relationship you are in. That is the hardest part for me. I have had the same problem for the last couple fo years. You need to find yourself, just like I do.
2006-12-28 19:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by bizzlelizzle4shizzle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey i too have had that problem. the thing is you are afraid of commitment or getting too attached to one person. when you sense that guy is getting close to you your internal radar is telling you to start looking for someone else. take the time and evaluate your relationships before you jump to the next one. you just may lose out on the one that is right for you.
2006-12-28 19:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are scared of fully committing to someone.
You are just trying to find faults in the person to make it OK to leave them. The longer you do this the more time you will lose.
Time passes quickly so don't let it pass you up.
2006-12-28 19:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still young... I cant keep a guy with out having my eye on another... And I'm only 21...
2006-12-28 19:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 years??? holy sh*t! That seems sooooooooooo long! I'm only 14 and my longest time was 2 months.
2006-12-28 19:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by wind it up 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
if he proproses...tell him ur not ready yet....you have to decide...do you like his guy or do you wan to move on???
you have to choose...or else you might end up with no boyfriend!!
2006-12-28 19:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. it\'s not a bad thing .. you are still young ..
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2006-12-28 19:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋